Well today hubbys just told me that he might not be home for when i have my operation as his draft has changed to a different ship so we dont know what hes going to be doing. I planned this op around both our leave periods as were both navy and need him home as i have a 4 year old and a 17month old. So im on wits ends till next week when he finds out whats definatly happening which means il have to cancel as wont have any help with kids