EXTREMELY DOWN ABOUT BOOBS!!!

All last night i have felt so down about the size of my breasts!! I’m really sorry about moaning AGAIN but has anyone else felt like this? One day i can be happy with them and the next (like today) i feel like they are so small. I wanted big boobs but these are just like a normal size and when I’ve got a vest on they just look like I’ve got my padded bra on. I’m worrying that I’m going to have to start wearing push up bras again just to make them look really big!! Which i didn’t want to do. Did anyone ever go back to there PA and ask for them to be done again because they are too small? Because i was told if your not happy with them or the size you have a warranty for 3 years so you can get them done again for free? And this was my PA who told me this and its on my forms. I know its only early days but i want to know if that i did decide to do that then its definitely an option. Sorry for the depressing topic girls you are the only ones who probably have an idea how i feel lol. xxx

Aww bless you! If you are feeling like this a lot then I would definitely go back & see your patient coordinator! Im not sure u can get them done for free again if your not happy? I was never told that… But u should definitely go back if you are not happy about them. How many days po are you?

Jess x

Im only 7 days post op so dont know whether im just being silly at the moment! I know other girls have said they have felt like this then once they had settled down and dropped they felt fine and was happy with them, so just waiting it out at the moment but i cant see them getting that much bigger when they drop and they are still swelled up at the moment so that has to go down yet. Not sure if im just being stupid at the moment haha @jess xx

Hun I felt exactly the same but need to think how they were before and after

Also remember you are strapped down in a sports bra so it won’t do you any favours. I tried a normal bra on to try and make me feel better and it made such a difference!!!

Try not to worry just yet, you are still early days and they will get better 🙂

Thanks hun @chelle I know that they are definitely better than my boy boobs before haha. I just thought they would be bigger to be honest. Do they get much bigger after dropping and fluffing? or is it just a small change in size? x

Hi hun, I have booked my op and on my first consultation one of the questions I asked was what happens if I’m not happy with my results? Her reply was, you and your surgeon will discuss what you want and if you don’t achieve what was agreed between the two of you they will take you back to surgery to fix it free! If you told your surgeon you wanted bigger boobs and you don’t feel like you have achieved it definitely go back and speak with them! You have paid all that money and you want it to be right and you have that right! I’m sending you a friendship request because I want to follow your aftercare hope you don’t mind.. Xx

I feel like mine are far too small too! I was told to wait till I can start waring proba bras but now at 8 weeks in a ‘normal’ bra I still feel the exact same 🙁

@micha Yeah thats fine hunni. Well i said i wanted to be bigger than when i was when i breastfed which i was a D then and i the moment i dont think they are. But like i said in my previous comment they have yet to drop and fluff. I know they should go abit bigger then but i cant see them going that much bigger. I know a lot of girls get boobie depression afterwards though so i think it might just be that at the moment. Well im hoping so lol, because if im still not happy with them and i go back and say i want them bigger but they charge me for it, im just going to feel like ive wasted all this money.

Can i just say though it is not that the surgeon hasnt done a good job because he has and my boobs look perfect and ive hardly had any pain whatsoever afterwards too, so im not complaining about that hes a brilliant surgeon so dont want to put anyone off. Ive just got boob greed and like it says on all the forms you get given, you can be given a size but its not a guarantee as every girl is different. And i do feel like i should of gone bigger as at moment i feel they are too small. Really sorry for all this moaning lol xx

@danielle Have they said anything about letting you go bigger if you still feel the same in months time? What size did you have? I know girls say you should be happy that they are better than before (which i am) But after all i didnt get these for free, i paid money for these so i want them to look great not just nice and ok if you know what i mean. I wanted big boobs not just average boobs, and i dont want to sound spoilt or anything its just that ive waited a long time for this and thought id wake up with really big boobs and i havent. I just feel like ive had a baby and its breastmilk if that makes any sense. Ive said all along if im paying all this money then i want them to look bigger than when i was breastfeeding.

I feel like im going on and on. Really sorry girls just having a moment lol!!!

Hi Tracey, sorry to hear your not happy, but I can say, I am now almost 5 weeks po and mine look a lot bigger than they did the first week. Especially naked. Feel free to add me and I can put some pictures up. Looking at my boobs you wouldn’t think they were big, but I tried on one of my breastfeeding bras that was a 34E and I fill it. I was an empty b/c before. My right is still and tighter than my left, and I know there’s a long way to go still. Hang in there my love, I am sure that as they change and become more boob like you’ll fall in love with them xx

Thank you hun @sasha Think i just had a major meltdown haha. Ive spoken to my pc though and ive been reassured so much. I think im just being too impatient as im only 7 days post op. I think i was just seeing the negative side to it instead of all the positives. Main one being i have boobs!! Plus my recovery has been a breeze up to now and ive had no problems at all. I just need to remember that they have yet to drop and fluff which i cant wait for lol. xx

Really sorry you feel this way hun. I’d say wait it out for a few more months and see how you feel after they’ve dropped. Am 16 weeks post and I didn’t start to really love mine until about 11-12 weeks post. They were a pointy shape from the side, box-shaped from the front, seemed too high and seemed a bit small. I didn’t get measured until 12 weeks post but they started to change after this point, and am so in love with them now, I can’t stop taking pictures. The thing that kept me going was knowing that I now had some boobs, compared to before (was a teeny weeny 32A, if that).

I’ve written a number of posts about boob greed and other encouraging words (with regards to my journey) on my profile. I’ve also got lots of pre/post-op pics too, which show how far they have come. Add me to take a look. They are probably not as small as you think hun. We are our own worst critics. It’s still early days for you and patience needs to be your best friend right now. They will get better, I assure you. I hope this was helpful hun. Good luck. xxx

@tracylou23 hi hun ur still early days so give it time. I felt exactly the same as u and I was gettin really depressed about it. Even went to my surgeon and asked for bigger but he said he there’s no way he would put bigger in. As the time goes by the do drop and fluff and u will c the difference especially if u have taken photos throughout ur healing time u can compare them. Try Not to get too down about it hun n wait til the end result xx

Thanks girls @sharks @kitty for all your kind words. Ive took pictures from day one and they have already changed a bit, im probably worrying over nothing lol. I think i need to realise you dont just wake up with the end result it takes time. Im just going to wait it out now and keep taking pictures to see the changes in them. I feel like ive really had a moan today, i i dont usually moan about anything haha. Your right @sharks i am very critical of myself need to snap out of it lol. xx

Wow Tracy, you’ve got such a long way to go! At 7 days I was gutted with mine, they were flat and right up my chin, but now they’re mahoosive and seem to be getting bigger !

Add me if you want to see my progress pictures.

Dont worry, right now they’re being held down by your tight muscles and skin! Mine really popped at 5 weeks xx

You’re definitely not being stupid! If you are unhappy you should go back. They do take a long while to drop & fluff, mine we’re still rock solid & perky for about 10 weeks & I first got measured as a D now I’m fitting into E bras so it could just be that yours are taking a little longer to settle.

Jess x

@trace Awwh i know im terrible aint i haha. Its a good point that ‘tight muscles are holding them down’ ive not seen it from that point of view. That makes sense now so when they relax they will pop out. Just couldnt get my head around how they would get bigger just by dropping if you know what i mean. Your already on my friends list. Your boobs look AMAZING!!! xx

I’m only on my 1st week so no where near ready for settling yet, im just being impatient lol. Its not that im unhappy with them as i do think they look nice, im just worrying that they wont get bigger when settled down. But everyone has said it takes time. Ill feel fine if when they drop they look a little bigger because i dont want them dramatically larger just a touch lol @jess xx

I am now 7 weeks post op today! and they have changed SO much!! Trace and I had our ops on the same date and your def right Trace! I have loads of progress pics also! I forget the weeks after the 1st week but the first 2 weeks were the hardest, my breasts didnt have a natural look at all and i woke up after surgery and mr traynor was there he said have a look! and i remember saying ohhh! they arent big!! and the tissue and skin being tight makes them look so much smaller, mine have settled now enough to see my final result but they will continue to settle even more, and when i was a few weeks post op i measured a 36dd, THATS WHAT I STARTED AT! I was so shocked but knew it wasnt right, but because they were so squashed within my breast tissue (i went over) they needed to ‘fluff out’ and 6 weeks on i measured a 36gg… so try not to worry, im sorry your feeling this way, it is completely normal ,youve paid all this money its fair enough, i think also you should wait at least a few months, i bet youll be over the moon with them. I did have 800 cc implant high profile on top of my natural 36dds and I dont feel they are that big!! My friends think im crazy, and the nurse took my 6 week post op photos today and i could see how big they are, we just dont see it ourselves i think!
xx

Thanks @sammy everyone seems to say the same i just need to wait. I suppose its all new to me at the moment just need to keep positive. When i wrote this this morning I hadnt taken my bra off so i went and put some oil on about 5 and they have gone bigger lol. I feel like such an idiot and that i was panicking over nothing. I think its more when ive got a vest on that i feel like this. Im just going to ride it out. Thanks for all your advice and comments i really appreciate it 🙂 xx

Hey! I was so down the first week! And then after my check up I got my life back on track and tried not to look back in 6weeks post and they’ve changed loads! Plus starting wearing a bra no padding and they look so much bigger! Even under the same top I wore with a sports bra.. It’s hard to give it time but when your back at work and get back to normal time goes so quick x x

Mine were awful at 7 days post op, but I just kept thinking that everyone told me they would change and they were right . I’m 4 months post op now and love my boobs 🙂

hi girls,

Im the same feeling mine a smaller then i wanted. i had 315cc and im 4 weeeks p.o.
thought i have big bouncy boobs with cleavage and don’t. Reelly hopeing they get a bigger otherwise I want them done again.
Honestly think the best thing to do is to show the pics of how you want them and size.
x

My boob greed was awful I had 400cc overs. But in time they get bigger even overs drop a d fluff now I’m sl happy with them

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