Fed up, shrinking

It’s been 3mths now since my op. 415 unders. So fed up. I go on holiday in 2 weeks. My boobs have shrunk. At 6wks I got measured as DD now I’m in a D cup. They have definitely got smaller. I’ve tried a bikini on and don’t even look as if I’ve had them done. What’s making it worse is I knew after I should have gone bigger but now it’s even worse. I’m dreading going on the beach and my husband looking thinking he can’t see any difference. We both agreed after that I picked the wrong size. He works abroad so hasn’t seen me yet for 2 mths. I loved them on day 2 and my husband commented on them now he’s going to come home and I’ve shrunk. It’s not just my husband it’s me. I really wanted to wear a bikini and be proud to have a bust , show them off. Now I’m going have to go back to extra padded bikinis/bras. Can’t afford to have them done again. It’s been a dream for me to have a boob job, at 43 that dream came true and I’ve blown it. I’ve started to hate them now. I know there’s nothing anyone can do and I know I’m different form pre op but spending so much money and hardly seeing a difference is really upsetting. I can’t say anything to my husband I’m just going to be positive. He paid for me so I can’t moan or complain. It’s my fault no one else’s. He was away when I went for my consultations ect .

Oh hun so sorry your feeling like this, I felt the same after my first and second op. I know its difficult to be positive and I expect you are really anxious about see hubby and worrying about what he might say. Try not to worry, give yourself more time. Did you have overs or unders?* hugs* xx

oh hun sorry u feel like this.. im sure u look lovely though.. plus ur husband will think u look amazing regardless. really hope u start feeling happier with them soon xx

Hi. Iv just looked at ur pics and theres a huge difference! Put your pictures of pre op and post of side by side. Plus, 3 months.. There is still time for them to settle. They can take upto 6 months to a year. Im about 9 months post op and they are still changing slightly. Esp in the last month. And ur last picture where you said they are wonky, ur not stood completely straight, if you look at your shoulders. Im not sayin your wrong, there very well may be a difference, but you’ve still got loads of time for then to even out. Xxx have a nice holiday and your husband should love you no matter what your boobs are like! Xx

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