Feel like crying

So 5 weeks post op even tho I’ve had my appointment with dr f and he said that I could be sorted once I’m fully healed and I’m going back to see him in June. Not very happy today tried on a nice dress for an upcoming wedding and I won’t be able to wear it the difference in size and shape of my current breast is really noticeable. Still not sure in his idea if keeping with the same moderate left high profile right but making the moderate smaller from a 330cc to either a 295/275cc when that boob is the size we agreed on I asked for a d/dd. can I asked for a second opinion from another surgeon? Really am dreading these next few months things were bad b4 boobs things are even worse now how in the hell can I be confident with these my Gp has agreed some happy pills to try and help I’m stressing day and night over this mess think I’m on the verge of a full blown mental breakdown. Just can’t deal with it all have been self conscious for years with my back and my muscle wasting condition that effects my lower legs, feet, hands and arms but that’s what life gave me and I’ve got on with it. Just can’t see me being happy until these boobs are sorted once and for all I don’t think that two different implant types/styles is the right way to go for me just want some more input from other surgeons does anyone know how I go about this? Do I have to arrange it all through my pc?

I would deffo ask to see someone Hun, you need to be happy, and not feel like a freak! You didn’t before, so don’t now! Fight your corner hunny xx

Awe babes hang on in there two months will fly by and least you know they will be sorted chin up xxxx

Hi Kim, I’m so sorry to hear you’re having a rough time, but you must try and stay positive. There would be no harm in asking for a second opinion, but if they cannot actually do anything until you have healed a bit better, then you may just have to try and be patient. (which isn’t my strong point!) When you feel like crying, shouting, screaming, let us know on here, coz you have lots of support here. Is the gp going to keep an eye on things (regarding the medication he’s put you on)? Please try and stay strong, and I would definately speak to your pc regarding a second opinion. Would you mind if I added you? Sue xx

Hi sue i will add you now 🙂 its just been one of those days bought a nice dress and it looks all wrong I’m ok in regards to having to wait and heal its just the whole implant choice still that I don’t like and talking about making me smaller on one side to correct that’s not what I want we agreed on around d/dd cup at present left is a dd right more a c. Want a second opinion more on the best implants to use and weather there is any reason why two of the same types either mods or HP won’t give a good result. Other pc I have seen over the years have only reccommeded placing a bigger implant on my smaller side but for some reason he thinks different types are best, but there are a few other girls on here that have same back and chest problem that have either two hp or both moderates with more cc on the smaller side. And if anything I want the smaller side to go bigger but he doesn’t seem to be having that. Hoping that the more input I get else where the better my case the next time I see him. Xx

Awe Kim stand strong huni they will put it rite for you xx

Hi Kim, sorry it’s taken me so long to reply, I don’t always have the use of a computer 🙁 It seems daft that the obvious solution is the one you are suggesting but he can’t see that. I would be so frustrated too. I really hope it gets sorted for you. Stay strong, us girls are good at that. xxxx

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