Hey hun, don’t worry sounds like I am in a similiar position to you! I am not post op 3 weeks but I was in and out of A&E for the first 2 weeks on drips and all sorts…
I am now 3 weeks and 2 days and still very sore. Mine are sore to touch and still don’t have much movement at all! Sorry to hear your stiches aren’t healing well. It can get very depressing being sore and not ‘normal’ for so many weeks on end. I’ll admit I do keep having the odd cry as I am exhausted from the constant pain. Worries me to think I could be like this in another 3 weeks!!
On the plus side we now have boobies, and even though it is taking slightly longer we will be healed eventually and be able to enjoy them xx