my hubby is having to do everything ive tried doing lil bits even tho he dnt expect it ive tried and cnt do naff all cant even pull up my pants after going for a wee i keep crying feel so crap even reaching for a glass is a massive task….. my boobs r stiff my bk kills ive just took my bra off for a few mins cus its killing my back then guna put it on someone pls tell me im doin ok b4 i have a melt dwn x