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Love how since i have put some pics up I have had how ever many friend requests with no one asking if they can add apart from a hand full

Same here Hun. Especially wen people don’t comment. A little bit annoying. I think i already had u as a friend. Ur boobs are looking good Hun xx

Same here I’m all for helping people as so many have me I have 20 odd pending as not one has messaged or spoke to me on here the ones thAt piss me off is no activity what so ever like y be on here if you don’t want to contribute xx

Thank you jade wish the swelling would go down in my right one and rose I know what you mean its just silly I actially put that pic up ro see if anyone elsewas having trouble with swelling and I have loads of people adding me and not even commented on the pic xx

Wait til you post something that is wrong or bothering you and the requests flood in!

Well I did the same jade added me and made comment about what I was worrying about which helps everyone that’s messaged I’ve said corse I’ll add you and help any way I can I defended people prior for just adding but others were rite doesn’t hurt to drop a quick message. No ones asking for fab tits comments just a bit of reassurance on worries helps xx

Nicole you look great lovely keep positive remember that yeh there is some not so caring people on here but the majority are lovely and really made my experience easier anyway xx

Nicole you are so right in saying that , I moaned about being too small and regretting it. Next minute 10+ requested . I felt like a freak show. I gave this forum a break, it got me down or wound me up. Made me feel worse .

Julie your right you do feel like a freak show as im worried about this swellingxx

@jessica how long are you post op Hun? And what did you have ? Don’t feel like a freak – bet its normal.. ! I bought my last surgery necessity today, waiting for 25th June to have mine done!!!! So excited!!!

Im 10 days post op and I had 300cc unders… what are you having…. and the 25th will come round so quick xx

Julie and rose…thank u…lots of lovely people on here but just a few that don’t think how their actions can make someone feel when they are worrying and conscious of an issue!

Hun this has been my biggest gripe on here xx it specifically says on my page to message before adding last week I’d ten friend requests from people I’ve never even spoke to x if they don’t have the decency to send at least one line with their request I completely ignore it we are not a bloody freak show !x damn right Nicole if you post something is wrong you get millions of requests then xx very sad x yes I know we are all in the same boat and we are looking for help info etc but there’s nothing wrong with manners xxx also there are some people on here who at not what they seem another reason I don’t add everybody some are just men pretending to be a woman wanting to look at your boobs xxx

@jessica 325cc unders Hun. So nervous as unders are supposed to be loads more painful than overs. My sister in law @melanie89 is getting overs on the same day 🙂 have you spoken to the nurse if you’re worried? Sure it’s totally normal xx

Ee well Emma those blokes would not be turned on at the sight of my square buzzoms at the moe I think the majority of people share the same opinions have respect have manners and everyone is happy xx

I’m so scared to add people or accept people on here unless I see them comment often- paranoid that it’s mainly men :/ (on that note Jessica I’ve added you if that’s ok Hun?)

Ladies I have noticed this too!! Just deleted a couple of people who seem to be randomly adding people and have no activity and nothing to say!! We benefit from this forum to an extent when we have questions, queries and worries and happy moments too and I think people don’t mean to be insensitive (well not all anyway) !!! But can’t help themselves… People huh!!!! Xxx

oh my I’ve never even thought of that! how stupid of me, i accept everyone! i was planning on putting before and after pictures on as well!! I’m going to have to go through my friends list to make sure they all look real! xx

Girls there is an account that added me today and has 3 pics no activity and just lots of friend requests seem to be a lot of you girls that I am friends with just a heads up ! And while we are on the topic of FRIENDS thank you to all you girls that have answered my question been thoughtful and helped me to make my journey start and follow all yours

I think at first this forum is actually quite a lonely place. I’ve been registered for a few weeks now. At first I was posting things to try and not only get advice but also to make friends on here. But got no replies. I tried to include myself in conversations but again to no avail. So I started adding people myself. The occasional person I have asked before hand, but doing this on my phone where all the buttons are so small makes it a pain in the arse tbh. Not everyone has a hidden agenda… Xx

I think its taken to personally. I had like two friend on here and now i have 60
Alot if adds followed once i stated how people were messaging me insults abd some when the found out my size.
I woyldnt take it personal i didnt.
People on here add me and havent nessaged me 80 percent of them didnt ask but im not offended there curious and also we are all interested in eachothers journeys xx
Its exciting and scary we are the worst women love to compare and analyse and were nosey lol xx
Dont be offended by the adds xx

Ive had the same prob friend requests just to look at my pics, no comments apart from a few and no messages after 🙁

Seems to be the idea of the forum to get people talking and to make friends, now I’m to this whole thing so I’m thinking if your on here and uploading pic and announcing that you have done so of course people here are going to be interested and your going to get “new friend” requests

people are so keen to try and see results and compare, i honestly dont think they realise at the time, i added a pic not long ago of my natural boobs and all of a sudden i had loads of friends requests, i dont mind personally as its only for people to get an idea and reseaerching.

but i just ignore the requests if it bothers you hun you dont have to add anyone you dont want on xxx

There’s been a few posts on this recently. I have been on this forum for quite a while now and I’m 9 weeks PO. I agree that messaging first is a polite thing to do and also gives people a chance to ask questions and make friends on here. However I think there are quite a lot of girls that are pre op and want to see everyone’s pics, yet once they’ve had their op suddenly don’t want everyone adding them. We are uploading pictures for the reason that we want people to see them and show off our new boobies! I rhink this topic is getting a bit silly and I also think it will make girls pre op very wary of being a part of this forum. I agree with nikki if you don’t want to accept someone just decline, but we are all in the same boat and here to help each other xx

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