Friends???

I had my BA on Monday and my husband and family have been very supportive. However…I just wondered if anyone has experienced any unexpected responses from friends?
One of my friends, who I haven’t seen for a couple of months called in this evening to drop off some clothes for my little girl. When she asked me what I’d been up to I obviously told her about my op. She was far from happy for me. She fired a few questions like, “why did you want that doing?” and ” have you paid for it?” before saying that she had to rush off and then left. She left me a bit gob smacked to say the least. I hadn’t previously told her because I hadn’t seen her since before deciding to go ahead with the procedure and I explained this to her. Also, one of my other friends response was ” are you made of money?” after I text her to tell her. So too be honest Ive come to bed tonight feeling a bit upset. Why does it feel like some people just can’t be happy for you?

Hey Hun,

I haven’t told my close friends as I know they wouldn’t be too pleased for me. They all have quite large breasts naturally and don’t seem to see the big deal about me wanting fuller breasts. I will be waiting till a couple of weeks when I know I will end up having to see them before I mention it. Don’t feel lonely. Aslong as your husband and family are supportive don’t worry about them. They didn’t pay for them, you don’t owe them anything therefore you can spend your 4k on whatever you want. Don’t feel low. Be excited about all those great outfits you will be wearing with fantastic new boobies!!! xx

It sounds like a little bit of jealousy to me hun! At the end of the day people with big boobs will never understand, and it is your body and what you choose to do with it is your choice and nobody else’s babe! There will always be a few judgemental ones with this as their is with everything so just brush them off and focus on what makes you happy 🙂

Thank you for your kind words ladies I really appreciate it. I guess I was just shocked by their response. It was the other way around I would have been excited for them and like “whoo let’s have a look! “. I guess it’s times like this that the green eyed monster shows itself within some people. I will keep my distance from those who can’t be happy for me. Xx

I have gained “friends” well nosey ones I can call them. All of my true friends have been amazing they knew how much if ment to me. They’ve been so supportive n I literally have the best family an friends they’ve defo made my recovery sweet! Been spoilt n waited on (considering second surgery) lol just kidding! People who say negative things are clearly jealous! Keep your head high my elder sister has been bitchy but that’s nothing new tbh she’s always been like that!

Everyone who judges n gives negative comments are clearly not worth your time 🙂
Hope your healing well xx

Definatelty sounds like jealousy, I put of telling my mum as I dont really have a close relationship with her anyway and I knew she would be jealous because she is jealous when it comes to anything to the point when I brought a house twice the size of hers she didnt speak to me for months she shocking.

But as suspected soon as I told her she fired the same stuff at me and I could see it written all over her face that she was jealous I just gave back a big smile and said “well if you’ve got the money why not, I’ll be on the tummy tuck next year too” 😀

Yes I think I am recovering ok thank you jay..how about you? You’re all absolutely right. ..not worth my time and I just have to remember that not everyone is happy for you when you get something nice!
That is shocking Nikki….but I love your comeback. When I next see my “friend” I’m going to tell her that im now saving up for a face lift lolffor when im 50 lol ( 20 yrs away).She bought an absolutely beautiful house last year. ..one that I could never afford. I was genuinely extatic for her when she won the auction. People can be so unbelievable! Xx

Forget other people. Your body your money you can do what u like.

Yeah I’m fine thank you don’t feel in any pain what so ever, strange really as I thought I would! X

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