Getting frustrated :-(

Aw girls the last couple of days I’ve been getting really frustrated with my new girls! I’m 4wpo on Wednesday & I’ve got 2 different size boobs, one higher than the other & now starting to think they look smaller than what they should 🙁 I had 400cc high profile unders! I’ve been completely over the moon with my progress so far & all of a sudden I’m not keen.

When does drop & fluff start?
Will they get bigger & fill out more when they d&f ?
Softer but still quite hard in the centre/bottom?
My boobs have also been ice cold the last couple of days. Anyone had this before?

Sorry for all the questions! I’m just frustrated because I keep seeing girls have such a small cc & they seem massive & I’ve had 400cc & I feel small, I don’t know if drop & fluff has even began with me yet & hoping they will fill out a lot more

Please put my mind at ease with this emotional rollercoaster x

25dpo

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They look good to me! I can’t help wit most of the questions but I agree with the seeing smaller cc but looking huge! I had 450cc and they don’t look as big as the number haha xx

Hey Lisa, they’re definately NOT small they’re a fantastic size. The one on the right of the picture has just dropped before the left. I know it’s frustrating but many people say treat them as two seperate ops, they will both heal/drop/fluff at different rates sometimes! The other one will catch up don’t worry! Rome wasn’t built in a day, you will have your perfeft rack soon! Xxxxxx

I’ve seen loads of girls on here recently who have had 350cc but honestly yours look so much bigger. They look very natural. Actually I was deciding between 350-400 and seen how big yours are and a couple of other girls on here who have had 400cc are I think I’m going to go with 350cc option. I dont mean that in a negative way I just think they will be too big for me.
But seriously do not worry about not being big. They are a great size. You look fab xxx

It’s so annoying ain’t it @chelsea I’ve been on this forum for quite a while now & watching everyone else’s journeys & I’m stuck here like hi boobs! Or they’ve gone, nope there they are! Oh they’ve disappeared again haha it’s so up & down ain’t it, some days they feel small & some are good! When did you have yours done babe? X

Ah thanks @vee Really appreciate your compliment 🙂 I think because they are constantly strapped down in my sports bra makes them look small. I had a funny feeling the right had dropped a little only by looking at a photo, I don’t think my left has even started too drop but seems so much bigger than my right atm & I’m getting horrible pains just under that boob & kinda in my ribs! I’m putting it down to sleeping upright & it’s now starting to effect me after 4 weeks! We just can’t win can we. I’m so looking forward to sleeping flat & I think I’ll notice a difference when I can start wearing normal bras instead of feeling squashed x

Thank you @jessica it’s nice to hear others opinions. I think I just need to be patient & wait, because it’s been 4 weeks now wearing horrible sports bras, only showers, sleeping upright it’s starting to take its toll on me! Sometimes they look a good size & sometimes they don’t to me but I guess I’m looking at them every day so don’t see much change unless I look at progress pictures I’ve taken! I just don’t feel like I’ve got the full 400cc at the moment yet looking at others who’ve had a lump smaller look bigger! I’m glad I’ve kinda helped you pick your size along with others, when’s your op date? X

Hey Hun I think they look perfect. Honestly, I’ve got serious boob envy! 🙂 xx

Drop and fluff happens at approx 1% a day

Your boobs is big Hun ..and they also look Very natural , they have a nice shape as well and I think that’s important as well

I had 350 cc and yours is visibly bigger x

Thank you @orsolya yours are perfect babe! I just wish mine would fluff & drop! I just hope one doesn’t stay bigger than the other :-/ What po are you? X

Thank you for the info @Lou x

@crystal19811981 I love my shape even before surgery I had a nice shape! Thank you for reassuring me with the size 🙂 I think yours look big for 350cc ain’t you quite far on PO? I’ve just got to keep telling myself that 4 weeks is still early & there is still loads of change to happen! I think because they are going through changes different rates I don’t like the look & size atm x

I’m 6 weeks tomorrow Hun I think mine looks
Big for 350cc because I’m so petite I’m just about 5ft tall
I was quite thin before my op and 6’weeks later
I have gained a stone …I’m not complaining though as I look healthier this way maybe my
Boobs gained weight as well I have no idea haha xx

Lisa I would love my boobs to look like yours !! They look so good x

Aww thank you so much @crystal19811981 you’ve put a smile on my face Hun 🙂 I think I’ve put on a little bit of weight too! I hope so anyway lol I’ve tried for years to gain a bit of weight & nothing at all has ever worked & I love my food (like a man) yours look amazing on your frame! & they are defiantly a good size on you 🙂 are you laying flat yet Hun or on your side? I’m actually tempted tonight just to try it but don’t want to ruin any progress x

I was thesame couldn’t put weight on in the past ! Now I can so I’m happy about that . I have been sleeping with lower pillow and when I have tried on my side as well it felt really good haha but I ended up sleeping on my back as was scared I may put pressure on the implant and may end up in my armpits or something haha xx

Mr Traynor is such a good surgoen he really does gives the best advice …it may not be what we want but he knows he’s stuff . I actually wanted 400 and he’s put me off about it ..he based it on my height and width of my boobs he said they won’t look good without a bra . He said what would you rather have good looking boobs or just big boobs ? I said both hahh he said unfortunately due to your weight size and chest measurement you can’t have massive and still look good because you don’t have enough tissue so we
Both ended up with 350 cc ..before I walked out I said how about 375 cc? I think he was ok with that as he didn’t say no ..but he also said 350 and 375 is very similar so I just stayed with 350 .
When I look at my before photos and what I have now
I think they look amazing …but when I compare my boobs to others I feel small lol … so I think the only way we can be happy is to look at what we had before we got out operation done and to how we look now . This is something I’m still learning to do everyday .
Don’t forget once you can start wearing normal bras they will look even better x

I’m going to chance laying down without my back rest tonight! I can always use it if I feel uncomfortable, I’ve been on my side a couple of times but it felt weird so I don’t bother atm. I think that’s also my problem Hun I compare mine to others too much then you end up being disappointed ???? i often like to stay off the forum for a few days so I don’t get too caught up in it! It’s so strange what the cc can do from person to person! I’m exactly the same can never put on weight doesn’t matter what I do but this time I feel like I have a little. Dr Traynor is defiantly a brilliant surgeon & I can’t recommend him enough to others! I’ve always been over the moon with mine just these last 2 days have frustrated me but I suppose it’s all part of the recovery process! You really did choose a good size or should I say Dr Traynor haha he’s done a wonderful job. They are so perfect! I’ve got a massive change from my before pictures I’ll just have to keep looking back at it. I honestly can’t wait to start buying bras & even get measured. I think that’s my next exciting part of this who progress 🙂 x

Yes try without the back rest and see
How you feel . That’s what I do as well I don’t want to keep looking and googling 350cc before and after all them time haha because you get different result and you think what if I had 50cc more and so on ? And yes I have tried on bras already not even mega padded ones and I have to say I look boobylicious hahahah xx

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With a bra they can look even more bigger so that’s a good thing we
Can be big or big enough with bras haha xx

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Reading yours and crystals comments made me laugh. I thought that was just me who felt like I’d got a bit chunky after the op! Hope you feel a bit better Lisa xx

ALSO, I’m sleeping without my backrest and it’s so much more comfortable! I did end up on my side at one point out of habit and it felt a bit weird so I just shifted back onto my back! xx

Lisa they do not look small in the slightest!!! They are looking so amazing and they look so big, so natural as well I am so jealous! Starting to wonder if 400cc may be a little big for my frame now as I’m so small. Chin up Hun honestly they look incredible already xx

Ohhh wow crystal ???? They look amazing! I’m happy now hahahaaa I just need a few more weeks to hurry up so I can dress mine up!

Awww @amy we are gonna turn into little chunks now we’ve got boobs! pay £5000 for abit of weight haha how did that work?

I’m so looking forward to trying without the back rest tonight! I hope I sleep like a baby, I’ve not been that bad with it just last couple of days I’ve had an ache under my ribs, I don’t like being on my side yet! I don’t like it, feels too weird like I’ve got balls near my arm pits lol x

When those bras wrap around them you will feel so so so good !! Stop worrying and you will be fine
I started off with A cup so you will be so much bigger
Hun xx

Thanks very much 🙂 @abi I think I’m just having a down day with all the changes that’s going on!

I’m 9st 2 size 10 & 5ft 6 I was a small 34B before my op! I know your stats are different to mine! Maybe go & try them for size again for your own piece of mind babe, people say always go for the biggest offered but I don’t always find that the case tbh! I could of quite happily gone bigger with my surgeon but I know what size I wanted to achieve so that’s what I expressed to Mr Traynor. I’m sure you will look amazing in whatever size you choose for yourself! Not long now. You must be excited 🙂 x

I can’t wait for that day crystal aw the thought of a decent bra excites me! Thanks lovely really appreciate your chat tonight 🙂 & the other girls!

I’m going to hopefully sleep like a baby & also about bras haha x

Haha who would’ve thought you could pay to gain weight! Your boobs look amazing though! We don’t have long until we can get out the dreaded sports bras and into pretty ones xx

I know yeah! I’d of done it a long time ago haha

You know I’m going to have a garden fire with a bottle of wine to burn my sports bras lol

Thanks @amy tomorrow’s a different day! I’m literally counting the days to pretty ones ???????? X

I’m still switching between the 3 I have just waiting for this sensitivity to go away. Did yours ever calm down in the end?
Almost time for the pretty ones, I’m so excited xx

Hey Hun,

I’m 4 weeks post op now and I had overs. Sometimes I think they dropped too quick lol it scares me sometimes. My right boob was always bigger, even to start with I was looking at them two days ago thinking I hope the left one will catch up soon but today the left one looks bigger so I’m just here pulling my hair thinking what the hell is happening. They are literally changing by the day and I like them at the moment so I’m scared they are gonna change into something I don’t like that much.
Honestly Hun yours are looking great and definitely big! Are you still sleeping sitting up then? I was told I could sleep on my back after 1 week and on my side after 2 weeks. I hope that didn’t ruin things for me in the long run :/

I’m in exactly the same position one looks round whereas the other looks tear drop shape it’s making me so anxious they’re going to stay odd ???? Yours look amazing they look so natural! Xxxxx

@amy I’m still very sensitive & sore on my boobs babe! It’s terrible if I catch them of brush something against them :-/ I’ve got no idea how long that’ll last for. I thought it would of eased up by now but they haven’t that’s the part that’s probably slow healing for us x

Hi @orsolya it’s really annoying ain’t it! Mine are up & down the last few days I can’t keep up lol fingers crossed yours stay like that. It’s like I’ve got a good sister & an arsehole of a sister 🙂 it’s typical…. no babe I gave sleeping on my back a go for the first time last night & didn’t like it! Within half an hour I had my back rest up! I’m just not comfortable & it feels so weird I just can’t do it yet same as laying on my side I don’t like it just yet! It’s like I have to put my hand under to support my boobs but then I move straight away! My nurse said to still stay sleeping upright, same as baths I’m still showering because she told me I couldn’t soak in the bath yet also. You won’t of ruined anything babe every nurse & surgeon do things differently! I don’t know why tbh x

Thank you @jade 🙂 mine seem to still have a long way to go yet babe I can kinda feel that in them with the slow dropping, hardness & soreness still I’ve got in mine! I’m sure we will both get there eventually. Think this is just the stage we depress ourselves with the why’s, buts & what ifs! What cc did you go babe?

Aw & just to make myself happy I’ve been to get myself a new post op sports bra!! I’ve got a DD 🙂 could of got an E but I wanted it tight for extra support! It’s definitely put a smile back on my face x

My bra 🙂

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