Give them time Hun your still really early days they are too seperate sites so will heal at different rates.
Unfortunately nobody prepares you for the roller coaster of emotions involved with having a BA.
I’m 3 years po and have had a love hate relationship with mine from the start, something I never prepared myself for I thought it would be a case of anything was better than I had before but that is certainly not the case.
But give them time to heal they change constantly in the 1st few weeks they will soon settle so try not to worry