Guilty feelings

Anyone feel a bit guilty/scared before their op? Jut thinking about the risk I’m taking and having two small kids (one special needs) :-(. Bloody emotional rollercoaster ride this1 Waited sooo long to have it done and it feels like right surgeon/size/placement etc – just these damn thoughts creeping in now x

I felt exactly the same, kept getting panicky that something would go wrong and it would be my own fault!! I think it’s natural that you’ll feel like that but it’ll be fine and afterwards you’ll wonder what you were worrying about x

Yea I think its pretty normal when you have kids, before my first op, it had been booked for months and I just woke up all through night thinking I was selfish and panicking really bad. But you are in absolutely safe hands the chance of anything happening is really really slim, Mr k said 1 in 100,000 for anasthetic, but that includes elderly patients etc, so if your looking at just cosmetic patients its Soooo much less than that risk too. Read all the storys it reassures you, honestly hun you will be fine, and the feelings are totally normal xxx

Thanks girls, I knew these would be normal feelings. Haven’t told my mum, and that upsets me a bit too. She just wouldn’t understand – she hates fake tan/hair extensions false lashes/nails etc, so I’m just gonna go ahead and not tell he – she accused me of having one lat summer when I was wearing a padded bra under a vest lol! But I don;t think we are selfish wanting this – it is not for anyone else or vanity or anything like that. Onwards and upwards! x x x

no0108 I am the same not told my parents as they don’t agree with all what you have mentioned. But I have wanted this for 10 years plus and decided this was my year. Think we all doubt ourselves before hand. But I am 1 day post op & although very early stages so pleased I went ahead. Good luck girls it will be worth it x

You wouldn’t be normal to not worry chick I also gave too children just look at it like your only having them done because of the kids lol, I’m having mine done with me kazzazi on feb 1st good luck 🙂

Thanks redbullqueen. Good luck Stephanie – nearly our turn!!!! Yes, the kids made them droopy! x

I have two children too, that’s why needed this ba because I breastfed and ended up with two saggy sacks , I haven’t told anybody except close family and am now 2weeks P.O. and I can honestly say that nobody would know if I didn’t tell them so you can hide them if you want to, I had 385 overs and wearing 36dd sports bra but easy to hide if you want to xx

I can relate girls, got a 18 month boy and although i know i want boobs for me, i also worry alot about what people say. I dont want people thinking im letting him go without so i can show off or whatever any narrow minded people think.
Im 21 and really feel the pressure after having my boy,but the thought of a fuller pair really makes me feel more girly and confident, nothing to do with vanity.
Ive limited it to close family but surely we deserve something for ourselves, i can tell ladies like us give everything we can for our children so just embrace it xx

Thanks Teresa, thanks Emma – so sweet x

The way I see it is as a knock on effect, if you’re happy- others will be. it’s all about confidence & positive energy..let all bad thoughts go you only live once 🙂 chins up guys xxx

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