Hi Hun, I have a 3 year old and a 19 month old. I had someone with me for 2 weeks but after that I was ok to lift just not all the time, only if I really had to. I’m now 3 weeks post op and had unders and I’m absolutely fine now, I have to get him in and out of his cot, put him in his chair at the table, in and out of the car seat, literally everything lol and I’m absolutely fine ? Hope this helps Hun and good luck with your op! Cx