HELP Nervous..BA on 19th June

Hello All,
I am having my BA on the 19th June, six days time. I have been going through a rolla-coster of emotions of late and this morning I woke up feeling extremley nervous and anxious about the whole things. I was questioning whether i was doing the right thing and whether i would be happy with the results. It is a big deal and will obviously change the way i look and feel about myself. Last week i was over the moon about my decsion and wished that I was havng my op sooner.
Just wandering if anyone else has/had gone through similar feelings and can share some positive vibes.

thanks
kk

:bigsmile:Hi Kristie
I know how you feel i still car;t make my mind up .I realy need them doing i have had my con with the surgon i have the money and the holidays in work .But every day i change my mind .In fact as i am typing this i am thinking to myself just go for it (hehe) and i am but just dont no when .Every one on this site is soooooooo exited about getting theirs done i wish i was the same but i am terryfied of the annastetic .I no its silly but i will have to get over this and start looking farward to nice new boobs .So your not alone.

Good luck and you are doing the right thing if it makes you happy so you go for it and let me no how it went.

Hello!! it will be the best thing you do I cant tell you the feeling you have when you wake up and look down at your new boobs. Its not hugely painful…I had no pain when I woke up just an aching 2 days later. You have painkillers anyway…its not bad at allxxx

Hello Emma i am going to manchester to get ba and was wondering if your surgon is placed in the one clinic or he can travel to manchester? I am surpose to be getting mine with Mr Traynor .I am from liverpool and it will be too far to travel to london .I have heard some good reports on your surgon.

I hope i get a good result .I am getting 380cc overs i am a32b now i would love dd but i am only 5ft 2 and he thinks dd will look silly.So i am hoping to be at least a d .xx

Hello Kellg,
I think Mr Singh travels between clinics its worth asking emax

Hi Kristie, I’m having mine tomorrow so I know exactly how you feel, I’m so nervous! All I can say is though that reading all the positive feedback and stories on here has really helped. Pretty much every single person on here seems to have had a really good experience with no problems so I’m hoping it’ll be the same for me (and you)! Also when I started wondering whether I should go thru with it, I thought how I’d feel if they rang me and told me it had to be cancelled for months…I’d be devastated! So i guess all the worrying i’ve been doing about whether its the right thing or not is just down to nerves! Let me know what u decide x

PS kellg, I am exactly the same… no one else on here has really mentioned the anaesthetic but I am absolutely terrified about being put to sleep, haha help!

Hello rosie , I am sure things will be ok with the anasetic i am just glad someone feels the same about it .I have been putting this off long enough and i am going to book my date .Will you let me know how it went when your up to it as this might help me (hehehe) emma has made me think possative about the whole thing .So thanx emma and try not to worry too much tomorrow just think about your new boobs and that will help .xx

Hiya!!
Dont worry about the anesthetic …when you wake up beleive me when you look down and see the BOOBS!!! you will be soooo excited!!! I cant describe the first feeling you have!!! emmaxxx

you will be fine hun dont worry. it is normal to feel nervous – i was sooooo nervous and then as soon as I woke up it was amazing and i have loved them since then. i was texting my pc all the time and she realy chilled me out. my surgeon and all the staff at the hospital are lovely which helped too. just try and get excited, it was the best thing that i have ever done. good luck xxx

wow im so glad im not the only one. when i stepped out of the mya building after my consultation with the suegeon i was so excited and i was so confident this was what i wanted that i could of done it that day! but then i had to tell the parents which didnt go so well so i thought id think about it. and so now, two weeks later i cant stop thinking about it but i have so many doubts in my head that im afraid to book it! i just cant imagine what they will look like and it scares me. then i think am i being stupid? do i really need this as im already a D? but i think there is a bigger part of me that wants it! so hopefuly over the next week ill have the courage to pick up that phone! let me no how it goes youd be a great help! x

Hi chelsea!!
Go for it!!..my mum ahhh…when I got my first BA (didnt tel her) ..said after ”why would you want to change your self?? I had to tell my mum that we were in a different era and women today liked a fuller bust (bearing in mind my mum has big boobs and my sister ..apart from me then!!) You have to do what is right for yourself not family!! I can only talk from experience and having a 32 a (fried eggs!!) to a 32c/d made me feel brilliant..i felt more confident and better in myself. I’ve had a 2nd BA with MYA …now a 32f…probably 32e after swelling but Its what I wanted no one else!! Sometimes in life you have to pick the path you want regardless off family etc!!!
Do what’s right for you and what you want..emmax

Hi Chelsea,
Its kristie and i started this forum. Its now saturday and i have had my BA yesterday. Right up until the night before my emotions were so mixed and although i slept ok, all i dreamt about was my operation. I am a person that does not make any decision lightly and needs to be clued up as much as possible. Sometimes this can be a great thing and other times a nightmare. However with something as big as a BA im glad i took the time and made sure it was the right decsion. And now, the day after I am really happy i went through with it. Although a little bruised and sore, i feeling great about my self already. My mum although she said was supportive, did not want her ‘baby’ to go an change her body cause it was fine the way it is. And these comments dig dep, not intentionally but because i value what she says. Howver like Emma said, it is my/our bodies and we do these things for all the right reasons. How I now if i am making the right decision is if when i talk to someone about whatever it is i will ethier be defending and seeking conformation for what im deciding or looking for support in that im making the wrong decision. With the BA all i wanted to hear was that it was good thing and i had all the information to back up anybodies questions and doubts otherwise. Hope this makes some sense. BUt all the best you will do the right thing for you.
p.s my new boobs feel and look amazing already
kristie k

Hi Kristie,
I am having ba on july 14th and i am sooooo nearvous but excited to.How was the dreaded anesethic ? thats what i am scared of incase i dont wake up .I am the same as you i don;t jump in i needed to be sure it is the right desicion .I have loose skin due to weight loss so whatever i end up with it will be better then what i have now (hehe)

what size have you gone from and what are you now ,i have choson 380cc overs i am a b cup now so i don;t no what i will be after i d i hope .

Hey there,
Fortunately for me, I have never been worried about anaesthetic..i think that it is a really nice feeling and rest assured the aneathetist is very experienced in what he does. Although the groggy aftermath of anaethetic is not so fun, but after four hours good as gold. Just make sure you drink loads and loads of water after your surgery to flush it out. I finsihed my drip and drank about 3 litres before i went home and another couple when i got home (day case).
I was still very nervous up until the i was lying on the table before i went to sleep, my heart was beating so fast i could feel it, but i had to remind myself that this is what i wanted and it was going to make me happy. Obviously there are risks involved, but we are aware of that, and lets be honest we wouldnt do half the things we do if we worried about the possibly risks or complications.

I was a 36b before surgery and went for 460cc overs. I had my surgery yesterday and am fitting in a 36dd Sports Bra. Im thinking that after swelling goes down and the shape changes i will be a good size D, which I am happy with.
Hope all goes well.
Kristie K

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