Is it me?

I am considering breast enlargments

i am a size 8, 5ft 32/34 aa who hates how her boobs look, there tiny

My bf is very happy with me and i am doing this for me. I just keep having worries over it all and one min i defo want it and then the next min i am scared

is this normal?

My bf wants me to be a C but i want D or DD and keeps saying he doesnt want them too look stuck

If i just book a consulation will i feel better after it all?

Thanks for your time

I will be using either the Manchester or Liverpool place so any comments or advice will be much appreciated and will i need 24 hour support after the op, i.e would it be a good idea for my bf to stay off with me for a week while i recover? i am only taking a week of work as well as not many holidays left

Hi hun you sound exactly how i did before i booked mine, ive wanted this done for over 10 years now, my boyfriend loved me the way i am but i had no confidence what so ever, hated my boobs. I was a 32/34a/b, was 2 different sizes.

After my 1st consultation, my boyfriend came with me i felt that was it, i def had to have it done, and to be honest my boyfriend was alot more interested from then on…he also (aswell as me) didnt want me to look to fake or big, as though they had just been stuck on, and said i should be a c cup if i go for it…after talkin with the pc at the 1st consultation and then having a consultation with the surgeon we decided, together that the implant sizes he recommended for me would be best, bringing me out in the end to a d/dd. I wasnt so sure at first but he explained how they would look, that there really wasnt alot of difference between the c/d and that after all the swelling goes down etc that i would be how i wanted, he explained that if i went for the c cup look i would prob regret it a year down the line as they would have got a bit smaller…so we went with his opinion…

I ended up having mine done last week, 380 and 410 overs, and i’m so glad i chose what he suggested, so is my boyfriend…

I’m a size 10, 5’3 weigh around 9’4 but my weight is very up and down. I think if i had of gone smaller i would have regretted it.

I can send you the link to look at my pics on picturetrail if you want? I know i am bigger than you but you could get an idea…
You would need 24 hours care straight after the op, and preferably for a couple of days. I’m still struggling to do things, i.3 get in the bath etc, cant lift my arms very high still and i’m 6 days post op…but after a couple of days you would be ok as long as you had some help, maybe just in the evenings?

Hope this has helped a little? xx

i am not as long as u in wanting them well ……7 years, when i was 21 i had it all planned out, money ready, time off work etc…………. but the thing that stopped me was my mum, she wanted me to be happy with what i have i didnt do it for her She died 3 years ago at the end of the month and i know my mum will want me happy, its not like i have just thought over a few months its been years for me. And my dad is also being supportive, well he doesnt want me to have it but says he wont be mad and wants me happy and he did say if he had the money he would pay haha, i was like win the lottery please

The worse thing i hate about my breasts is the shape when there warm there so ugly and fried egg shape like, i want to be bale to go in to a bra shop and wear normal bra’s and not have to stick to a certian make as they only fit me, pretty polly if i am lucky

Its an awful feeling at the min what i am going through one mint i want it the next i am terrified lol!! My bf will be coming with me as he is soooooooooo supportive

your right about trusting the PC and surgeon though, they do it all day long haha!!! I spoke to a friend who had hers done 4 years ago and she said go bigger than u think? i was like i do want to be large but its the bf who isnt sure and like ur fella said too he didnt want them to look stuck on, thats what worries him the most

i think my bf will take 2 days off in his week to look after me and work the other 3 but i could always go to stay with my dad for a few days. what ever is best for everyone really

thank you sara for replying u have put my mind at ease, i think i just need to book my consultation and see how it goes and like u said prob once i have been it will be much easier i.e i want them done straight away lol

You can mail me on my email hun if u dont want to post ur link on here, thank hun

Shell
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arr…just sent u an email back hun…sounds all very similar to me…xxx

Hi Shell,

Know how you feel hun, it is a very emotional rollarcoaster on the way to a ba! I’d wanted to have it done for over 10 years, and finally plucked up the courage to go for a consultation after i’d been on this website and been chatting to all the lovely girls on here. The support on here is amazing! I’m 8 weeks post op tomorrow and i just love my boobs now, wish i’d had them done a long time ago. I feel so much more confident. My hubby said the other day, you never use to show me your boobs all the time, and it’s because i didn’t like them (although he says he did,) but he loves them even more now :bigsmile: xx

Shell

you sound the same as i was before going through with my BA. I had mine done yesterday and changed my mind so many times when i was thinking about it. I’d drive home from work and think yes im having it done, then by the time i got home id change my mind.

go and have your consultation then you will have all the details you need. Speak to your PC about any concerns (my PC was really great and answered all my questons)

Also the people at the hospital where really nice and supportive, ive already had a follow up call from the MYA nurse this morning to see how i am. MYA really do suport you!
its totally normal to be nervous and change your mind from time to time!

hope this helps.

I def agree with JoJo, the support Mya give is great, the day i got home the nurse phoned, and my Pc and a couple of times since, and they are on the phone at any time if you need to talk…i phoned my pc the night before my op in tears cos i was so scared, she was great and so comforting…havent heard this with many other companies so its lovely to know they are always there x x

i agree, MYA have been great, there is always somebody you can talk to if you need to X

i have to say here and you girls are amazing

i am going to ring up for a consultation tomorrow

shell
xxx

Hey shell i’ve been wanting a ba for about 10 years now and have plucked up the courage to do so and mine is in 3 weeks. I lost my mum about 3 years ago but she wanted me to have it done cause she hated seeing me so upset all the time. It’s taken a long time to get this far and i’ve finally realised how life is to short and you’ve just got to go for it. Still haven’t plucked up the courage to tell my dad about it yet though! Good luck with your consultation chick it’s the first big step to take but you will feel so much better once you have done it. The girls on this forum are amazing and so supportive!

AmyLou x

i’ve just sh*t out at lunch time ringing for a consultation

i will find time today, i am sooooooooooo nervous

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consultation booked 24th Oct in Manchester

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excellent! arr well done hun, 1st big step made x x 🙂

yay congratulations Shell, roll on the 24th :bigsmile: x

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