JEALOUSY WITH HAVING YOUR BOOB OP??

Hi sonia I’m having done them done for a confidence thing really, ive never been big at all, but there is such a big deifference with both and it gets me so down. I’ve felt worse and worse over the years and its now getting to the stage where I get upset when we’re gettin ready to go out etc, I just want to feel like a woman. I dont want to look massive and fake etc, just want to feel normal really. My parter has been great, he loves me the way i am but i know once i’m happier in myself he’ll be even happier aswell x x

haha i’m the same…my dad is supportive as he knows ive always wanted it done, but he cant get his head round me gettin in debt over it, at end of day its gonna be so worth it to how i will be feelin. He isnt against me but just doesnt want to see me gettin in debt, bless him. I’m 29 and still daddys girl haha xx

Well I have never done anything but disappoint my folks so I may aswell carry on ahead but I am stil lworried!I think I am mostly worried that I will regret it then realise I should have listened but no-one on here has regretted it-even those who had problems afterwards for awhile.If it wasn’t expensive I would have done it years ago so it is obviously important-I won’t let my hubby see or touch my boobs anymore cos I am so self concious.My boobs were the only thing I liked about myself-never loved em but the only ok thing I saw and now I don’t have that so I defo do it:)ooooooooooooooh I am sooooooooooooo excited.I am seeingf Dr.Singh on 16th Sept, can’t wait:)Keep fingers crossed that I don’t need an uplift girls!!!!xxxxxxxxx

hi sara
course im right girly! who doesnt want gravity defying big boobies?lol be excited and enjoy it! i havnt seen my scars yet, will do this wednesday so ill let u alll know how it goes! i feel great and so will u! any questions let me know.

maya
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OOOh , dead chuffed for you mate-who did your surgery?

hi sonia
i had mine with mr adamo at highgate. he was brill!

maya
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Thanks princess, Its Dr Adamo i’m seeing next thursday, it cant come quick enough! Just hope i dont have to wait too long before actually havin it done, does anyone have any idea how long the wait is? xx

Sonia – Sounds like we’re in the same boat, I’m the same age as you and made me laugh when you said about still being worried what your parents think. I know if they knew they’d say there are better things I could spend my money on as I also have 2 kids. I feel guilty enough about it as it is.

Sara – I have no idea why she doesn’t support me, every time I’ve mentioned it she changes the subject, you’d think having been through it herself she’d be excited for me cos she loves her new boobs.

hi sara
the best thing to do is to call mya in holborn (london) and ask for nadja, she is my patient coordinator and works closely with mr adamo (she recommended him to me) and that way u will defo get a consultation with mr adamo…the wait is up to you and how busy he is….i went for my consultation in june and i chose august to do the deed.lol so its upto you, you can choose the month and nadja will give you the available dates and you pick one.

maya
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ok thats great, thanks hun, goin to give them a ring after work and see wat they say x x

Hi girls:Sara-why are you getting yours done?Cos the way they go after kids or just cos want bigger boobs?I hate mine after breastfeeding4kids-just want them full again.Go to see Dr.Singh on 16th Sept-hoping he’ll say I can manage without an uplift then I can go ahead and book it-not going to think about what others will say-esp my mother in law who will prob be disgusted in how I have spent her sons money:(

Hiya,
Your friend probably thinks you’ll steal the lime light. Usual reaction…. xx

Hi Sara.I hate going out ,cannot socialise as feel so self concious.It not just my boobs but that now the main thing and I can’t change it without surgery.If I out on weight I can exercise and diet to feel bit better bowt self and make up can help disguise my bad skin but not even a push up bra nd padding helps my sagging breasts now and they are now two different cup sizes.I don’t want to look fake-think the tear drop implants are the more natural implants aren’t they?The mya pc said i would prob have overs as I prob have a lot of excess breast tissue but have to wait to find out what Dr.Singh says.I don’t feel fminine at all now, I have curves everywhere cept where it counts!!Who are you going with?xx

Arr bless ya hun, its such a horrible feelin isnt it? How old are you if u dont mind me askin? I’m 29, and feel that its def the right time for me, if i was ever going to change my mind it would be before now wouldnt it.

Ive heard also that the teardrop are the most natural. I’ve no idea what the surgeon will say to me next week, i just hope its all good! As you say we can do things about skin/weight etc but no push up bra’s etc dont do anything for me, have never had a cleavage and would like one, just sometimes! haha

I’m going with me adamo, have heard such good reports on him since last nite, hope his as good as everyone says and its something so important to me!

Next week can not come quick enough for me, just hope i get a date offered soon after that, got so much goin on for rest of year that i really want it done as soon as poss xx

Hiya. Mr Singh is a really good surgeon. He specialises in big boobs. He was the only surgeon who would let me have a large implant. I’ve mentioned in a previous reply on the forum that he did Jordans a few years ago and she certainly had nice big boobs . I must admit as I have a small frame size 6 the implants on me do look fake and round but that’s how I wanted them to look. If you have skin there to start with then the implants always sit better and look more natural. Mr singh never used drains when I woke up or bandaged me up which was a real plus point comparing it to the 1st BA. xx

Okay -well I am nearly33 and my boobs were naturally a d/dd cup but I was 1-1half stone heavier.It is the disgusting saggyness-like the go concave at the top-a balloon with a small amount of water in held at the tied bit and put in a bra-gross!!Nothing there to handle and even padding and push ups creat nothing now.I really do not want the fake look butI would rather that than what I got now:(I defo want to be back to a dd cup but nothing less so I will go as large as they think without sagging my skin too much further.I am soooooo scared they can’t do it without an uplift and I got to wait til 16thSept till 2nd consultation to find out-can’t get kids looked after till then!
Have heard good reports about Dr.Singh so I think if I get on with him when meet I WILL STICK WITH him if he happy to proceed.Emma-did you have overs/unders?i don’t understand why they do it differently for different people?I was told by2companies I would have overs as lots excess skin but will this not pull my sagging skin further??Ta you girlies-so lovely to feel understood and be allowed to be soooooooooooooooo excited!!My hubby bored of listening to it!!xx

Hiya,
I’ve just answered your question in the forum over/under xxx

:cry:Hi Emma,
I had my ba 4 weeks ago and i have felt slite rippling by the side near my armpit have you had eny rippling with eny of your ops ,and if so does it improve xx kerry

Hiya,
Yes I had rippling sometimes with the 1st BA..when I bent over to put shoes,socks on etc I could feel the ripples near my arm pit. Don’t worry this sometimes happens. As I am a small frame I could feel the rim of the bag but it didnt bother me as My boobs were a big improvement from a 32a. I’ve just had a feel of the 700ccs under my armpit and I can feel the rim of the implant. I find chest exercises at the gym really helps with the boobs keeping them firm. I’ve a few friends with implants who have had a bit of rippling now and again .. it all depends on the position your in, if you have had a tight bra on, sunbathing on your front (squashing implant),sleeping on your front , wearing an underwired bra thats been pushing on your implant ect. Hope this helps dont worry your boobs will ripple from time to time xxx

Thanx Emma ,
I have been wearing a realy surrported sports bra its a fraya one and it did cross my mind it could be that may be i should wear a less surported one . or shall i carry on wearing it?

Hiya.
No carry on wearing the bra you really need to support the new boobs!! I wore the shockabsorber sports bras and my boobs were really squashed (they were really for high impact sports!!). Dont worry about the rippling ..when you hold an implant and squeeze it it ripples sligthly ..this is what happens when you move in certain positions with implants (i found anyway). It may not happen on everyone but as I am slim I noticed more. Are you pleased with new boobies!! I’m wearing underwired bras now..YIPPEE!!! xx

Hi Sonia,
Asolutely no regrets it really changed my life and wardrobe. It opened up a whole new world of bra buying, dress buying ,bikini buying etc… It will be the best thing you do!!!
Do it for you nobody else, its your body and if people cant accept the fact then that’s their problem.
How you feel when you wake up in hospital and look down at your new boobs is fantastic. xx

haha i think your probably right…I’m going to see the surgeon for consultation next thursday, so excited! I have some close friends, who are being so supportive as they know how unhapy I am in myself, but one of my ‘close’ friends, who has always wanted them done aswell, in her own way is trying to put me off, saying that it could go wrong and to think about it more etc etc…she’s the same as me, has always been unhappy with herself, although she is stunning with a great figure, and we always thought she would have them done well before me…but now its come to me having them done she’s unsure…Strange eh?
xx

ladies, ive had mine done 5days ago! 4get everyone and any1 whos putting u off, theyre just jelous!!!!!!!!!! do it coz it will be the best thing uve eva done! im loving my DD/E boobies and theres nothing any1 can say to change my mind or make me regret them! ur in good hands with mya and u will be so pleased no doubt!

maya
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Excellent, just want i wanted to hear, and you sound very positive considering its been 5 days! how are you feelin? wat is the scarring etc like? hope you dont mind em asking? x x

I agree with princess!

Im 6 days post op and its the best things iv ever done. Dont listen to jealous ppl you will always get that do what makes YOU happy and you will have no regrets

x

Hiya,
I found when I had my BA that it really made me feel more confident about myself therefore I had a new aura around people. Its as though you have a ”new” you which some people may find hard to deal with ..therefore jealousy happens. I found with the 1st BA there were a few people who were a bit funny at first but it made me look and think were they real friends anyway. You have to do what is right for yourself nobody else. Most people I have found that have been jealous have been women who deep down are unhappy with their boobs etc but don’t do anything about it. I saved for 2 years for my 1st BA…I was determined nobody stood in my way!!! GOOOO FOR IT….YOU’LL LOVE THEM xx

I think your right, i’m going ahead with it all no matter what anyway! ;~)

How are you both feeling? wats the scarring like etc? Can i ask did you have to wait long after seeing the surgeon? I’m seeing the surgeon for consultation next thurs and have really got my hopes up that i will be able to book it for as soon as, but ive no idea what the waiting lists etc are like? Have only joined on here tonight and its great reading everyones stories, posted my own topic for some advice a while ago xx Hope your feeling well anyway x

Im feeling great im off all my pain meds now, its more discomfort than pain. I went to see my nurse today who took off my bandaged and replaced them with strips across the scars. Also had the knots cut off my stitches even though they are dissolvable this still has to be done! I havent looked at my scars yet however i have felt them and they feel very neat! This is because the nurse didnt have a mirror to hand.

I got to see my surgeon (Dr Traynor) 2 weeks after my first consultation and I put down

Arr i’m so pleased for you. I had 1st consultation 3 weeks ago, seeing the surgeon next week, i’m ready to put down the deposit next week so how long after am i likely to have to wait? Is it likely to be quite soon or am i lookin at weeks or months away?

Cant beleive how happy you sound so soon after, trying on a bikini aswell! I cant wait for that! x x

Guys, thank yo for posting.I have wanted my boobies done for15years now but money and people telling me not to put me off.My sister is really angry at me now I have actually started to pursue this course of action and she has always told me it cos she worried bowt me and now says it a bad example to my kids.I know I have always been the black sheep, the uglier, fatter,less bright of the two but I always had boobs!Now I don’t have them after feeding my fourth child.My sis has tiny chest and her boyf likes big boobies so maybe she is just jealous, never ever considered that.Does anyone at all regret getting their boobjob?I have not read anyone say that so far on here.The only negative thing I have heard is that girls wish they’d gone bigger.ttfn,Sonia x

I avent read anything about anyone having any regrets either, which is brill! Thats one of the problems i keep askin myself, will i regret it? But i cant see myself regretting having bigger boobs and feelin alot more confident in myself…think i will feel so much happier. Sadly it does sound like jealousy with your sister, my sis is naturally big, half sis, and she is so pleased for me…says i look fine as i am, as does my partner, but its how we feel in ourselves. I wont listen to anyone else, gotta go with how we feel x x

IM DUE TO HAVE MY BOOBS DONE SEPT, BUT WAS JUST WONDERING HAS ANYBODY HAD ANY JEALOUSY FROM FRIENDS. I HAVE NOTICED THAT WHEN I TELL PPL THEY SAY “YOU DONT NEED THEM DOING ” AND “OHH DONT GO TOO BIG” BLAH BLAH BLAH!! THEN PULL THAT JEALOUS FACE HA HA! I THINK AT TIMES LIKE THIS YOU REALISE WHO YOUR TRUE FRIENDS ARE, AS MY 2 CLOSEST FRIENDS HAVE BEEN GREAT!! WHERE OTHERS JUST PULL A FACE AND MAKE OUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS “STUPID N SELFISH” ONLY COS THEY WANT THEIRS DOING REALLY HAHA!

0Guys, thank you-it what I need to hear.I have no one supporting me fully and encouraging me to do what I have wanted to do for years.My loved ones all know how much I want this but it’s all negative comments I get.It is definitley making this decision harder.Actually my14 year old tells me I should go for it which is pretty bad really.I so want her to grow up with self esteem and knowing that it is what is inside that counts so I am setting a bad example I guess.I hope I have instilled her with confidence though which I never had and any self esteem I may have had was taken by my ex.Sorry-for waffling.Sonia

arr dont be sorry, i can honestly say i know exactly how you feel about the self esteem and confidence being taken because of an ex. I was put down for many years, which is mainly why i feel the way i do now. I am now with a lovely partner, who treats me so special, and is very happy with me for me, loves me the way i am, and it is wat is inside that matters, but you also need that bit of confidence to help you feel better along the way. Thats how i feel anyway. Do hope you reach your decision for yourslf, dont let others make it for you. Take care x x

Hi Sonia,
There is a time in life when you have to think about yourself. Its not about being selfish even if you have a teenager its about doing something for yourself. Life can be difficult sometimes trying to please everybody and do what bests for everyone else, but sometimes you have to take a step back and think”what do I want for me”!! xx

I make you totally right emma, thats what has made me reach this decision and get this far x

Hiya
I never told my mum about the first BA ..she was against it from the start. I had moved out by then anyway but it still annoyed me her attitude. It was like”why change yourself”. I just turned up for tea with big boobs 2 weeks later..she was shocked but came round to the idea. 2nd BA I just told my husband and nobody else. I couldn’t be bothered with friends etc saying ‘why a 2nd BA’. I had both BA’s for me nobody else…its about taking control of your life and what you want and just going for it what ever anyone says xx

Strangely enough, the only person I know who has a problem with me getting them done is my friend who’s already had them done herself.

haha really? thats a bit weird! Did she have any regrets or anything? x

Thank yo girlies-why can’t i have friends like you eh??!!lol!I would love to get everythig done, botox, lipo, dentistry, nose job etc etc but a boob job is what I have wanted forever and I cannot afford to get anything else done so I won’t get ‘hooked’ as my sister thinks-tho would if was rich I am sure!If I don’t need an uplift and can just have implants then I will defo go ahead-thank you for your words/thoughts/support xxxx
P.S.-Isn’t it silly that we still worry what our parents think-I am32 and am terrified cos I know my dad will go mental about me ‘wasting’money when I have kids to look after!

I mean’t thank you-I duno why I keep missing the u!

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