Just told my friends

So just told my friends about me meeting with a surgeon on Tuesday and one told me i need to go and see a shrink? She said its probably all in my head why i want to go have surgery etc. Not even the best shrink in the world would be able to talk me out of this. She doesnt understand what its like not having clothes what dont make you look like a 12 year old boy. I even buy all my bras online as im to ashamed to go out and buy them. Ive not been swimming with me daughter who is now nearly 3, i didnt breast feed my daughter as i didnt want to get my chest out infront of people. Its really not a phase of something in my head, its a physical problem that really is getting me down. …Sorry about the rant, it just wound me up a little haha

Heidi
Sorry to hear of a bad reaction from your friend, that doesnt really sound too helpful. Don’t be phased you are already doing the right thing, because its what you want.

Hope all goes well

Jemma x

Hidie I’m gutted for you about your friend. I understand what your going though I won’t go swimming wear crop tops or anything. I’ve booked ibiza with the girls I’m on the edge of cancelling because I won’t wear a bikini :(. But long as your doing it to make yourself happy then its the right thing 🙂 don’t rush in to look around for the best deal surgon and implants then go for it girliee!!! 🙂 xxx

Yeah deffo, people keep saying you have a boyfriend what do you want one for. I cant believe the only reason people think women get breast enlargements is to get male attention . That is certainly not true. x

People have said that to me aswell hun!!! As if you’d put yourself through surgery for guy!! Xx

I have 3 children, and I have breasts like that of a 90yr old 🙁 ….it is so bad i cant even look at them without feeling angry inside, and it puts me in a bad mood for the day…ive been with my partner since we were 12 and we have beautiful children and I want this done for me so i can wear clothes that dont make me feel awkward or that I have to make sure they dont show off what really lurking beneath them, my relationship is effected by how I feel about myself, and like you i’ve never been swimming and my children are almost 8, 4 and 1….. male attention is nothing to do with it….I most certainly dont want attention at all but all I had to do was get my breasts out and my friends and family cried with me, so not sure if we’re in the same boat aesthetically, but even though they can see why, they dont understand why i’d go under the knife because of it and are all telling me not to go any bigger then a C cup if i do lol….but supportive either way….hope you manage to make he/she see why this is right for you and do whats ever it is makes YOU happy xxx0
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You certainly don’t have to explain yourself to the ladies on here Heidi! We all totally understand why we all do it, whatever reason it be.
Remember this is something you’re doing for yourself not anybody else. If you feel it would make you comfortable and femine buying underwear and in clothes, giving you more confidence to do things with your daughter tha you go ahead and do it! It’s your body nobody else’s, my friends were quite negative when I first told them however they soo came round and those that didn’t I just haven’t spoke about it with them since. Don’t let anybod put you off! xxx

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