Hiya hun, Mines are 9 and 6 but never told them anything, they know i been in hospital and had an operation and was sore but when they ask what for, we just said it wasn’t important enough for them to worry about, as they just kids, but mines were ruptured so didn’t wanna get into it too much with them, and they are boys so are just happy to help rather than ask questions. each to their own hun and always a parents decision xx