Hiya hun im 5days po and still cant lift my one year old but she is a proper chunk, iv had a lot of help this week off friends and family, looking after my eldest hasnt been to bad except dropping a full bowl of tomato soup all my new carpet :/ iv just been able to be able to sit my youngest on my knee and give her a bottle, i just sit by the side of her in her high chair play pen and cot, its hard work at first but the way i see it being a mum no matter what the age they are its never a good time to be out of action xxx