Lots of questions. Lots of worries. Not loving my boobs :(

So I’m having a crap time with my boobs at the moment. I hate them. They’re not nearly big enough & I feel like I’m still tiny for the size that I am. Not my primary issue though. I have one boob higher than the other. I’m just over 5wpo and I’m worried it’s going to stay like this. I don’t mind how my boob that has dropped looks, but the other one makes me feel like they look really odd. It’s much more round and it makes the left boob look a lot smaller too.

I tried on some bras today and I can’t create any cleavage, they look awful. I left the shop nearly in tears. I have a feeling I’m going to be wearing 2 sizes bigger bras just to give myself any bust. They also feel like they’re always going to be too hard to even push up. I can push them up, but bras don’t seem to hold them in place. There’s a few problems really.

I just feel really disheartened, I’ve wanted this since I was an early teen, I’ve had it done and I feel like it’s made no difference to the issues I had. My boobs are at the side of me and sit quite low on my chest, I have no cleavage and I’ve got one sat completely separate to the other. I don’t think it’s anything to do with my surgeon, but just the way my awful body has decided to make things look 🙁

Just looking to see if maybe anyone felt the same? Am I being reasonable by feeling these things and will it go, or am I just going to have to cope as this is what it is?

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I think you will still have some more waiting to do until you get the final result, having said that I think they look bloody amazing! We are always more self critical on ourselves, I expect if you saw your results on someone else you would think they were great. You definitely don’t have an awful body either. In a few weeks your wonder what the problem was ( I keep telling myself this too! ) xx

If you had unders u need to give it a few more weeks. Mine dropped by 6 weeks then as I started wearing normal bras they fluffed and by 8 weeks they were alot bigger and completely normal to push up etc. Give it a little more time

Hi Hun it looks like they stil have a lil bit more of a dropping and fluffing to do Hun they look great tho xxxx

Iv been following your post and comments meg and you boobs were defo one of my wish boobs photos I think they look amazing!!!

I think they still have dropping and fluffing to do, ones dropped and I’m sure the other will catch up over the next few weeks. However they do look fab Hun!

I know how hard it is, I’m hating mine right now, they are so small and I have no cleavage so still no confidence in wearing dresses without a bra which was my main goal 🙁 Xx

@amberlu1 @amym11 @staceymlx @jojojo91 @hannahlaura Thanks for taking the time to read and reply girls

Amber, I know what you mean. I probably would be more fond of them if they were on someone else, I just can’t help but see the huge difference in where they’re sat :/ I hope you’re right in that I’ll wonder what my problem was!

Amy I had overs, but I’ve seen some girls boobs look as though they’ve done the drop and fluff when they have had overs. Hoping I’ll be one of the handful of people that appear to do that too

Hoping so, thanks Stacey 🙂

Aw thanks Jo. I didn’t think they were too bad to start but now they are in different places I feel completely different.

Thanks Han, I’m glad someone sees what I do! I know how you feel. I’m not sure if it’s just common and everyone feels that way. I can’t get my head around it. I expected to be so much happier after xx

@gemsehguh Do you have your 6 week appointment coming up soon? I think it’s completely normal but doesn’t make it easier, I drive myself crazy taking pictures and staring in the mirror, I know I need to stop but it’s hard.

I think it’s such a rollercoaster of emotions going through a BA, we don’t even realise ourselves before hand. I expected to wake up and be instantly happy with them!

It’s hard to be patient but as ones dropped so nicely, I’m sure the other will drop just the same. Xx

@hannahlaura yeah it’s Monday. Honestly I don’t think I’m going to be able to even pretend I like them when she asks :/

You sound very much like me. I have wayyyy too many photos and I stand in the mirror staring at them pointing out flaws, trying to push them together to make a cleavage appear. And I’m slowly creating an endless list of issues. I agree tho, I expected to wake up and be happy that I have something to go in a bra, but I can’t wait to pay these ones off and get bigger 🙁

I hope it does, because at least if the other does, they are symmetrical and maybe I’ll be able to move them to look the same, but time will tell. Again, thanks for replying xxx

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