Hey girls.
So I had my ba today at Preston first trust with Dr traynor.
I arrived and the staff were all lovely and took their time chatting to me even about just general stuff. I did not feel as though they were busy and had to run off.
Dr traynor came in and again he sat down and had a good 20 min chat with me just about afterwards and the procedure. Again he was lovely. Answered all my worries and question. Gave me all great advice.
After my ba I woke up and he came in maybe half an hour later to see how I was and helped me with my water. He then came in again before me being discharged and even said I’ll see u next Thursday. … So clearly he read and took in my notes as that was my date to see him a week after.
I have seen girls being negative about his manner and the way he portrays himself but I just want to say that is nothing of the sort in my opinion. And believe me I asked loads and didnt feel he was annoyed with me.
I’m only saying this about his manner and don’t want girls to feel like they can’t talk to him or not go to him.
So far…. So good π xxx
Thank you for this π I have decided to go with Dr Traynor aswell π xxx
Aww your more than welcome. To many girls being negative about surgeons and Its unfair. I’m glad. When you booked for? Xx
I think it’s important to remember that’s just your opinion. People often click better with some individuals than others, so if someone unintentionally rubbed him up the wrong way, perhaps they had a different experience.
I don’t think it’s fair to say it’s ‘unfair’ of those to express their negative experiences, as I’m sure if you were in their shoes you would do that same π
I think it’s just nice to support everyone and their individual experiences rather than saying you’re right and they’re wrong.
Now correct me if I’m wrong…. Where did I say I was right and they were wrong??
Now its comments like that that the forum don’t need. I’m all about positivity though. Shame your not. Have a good day though π
SO glad it went well for you Sam! Especially because Iβm aware you were panicking due to girls writing negative stuff about him on here. I think your review will be of great comfort to girls who are going with him in future π xxx
By saying ‘too many girls being negative about surgeons it’s unfair m’ implies you don’t think they should express that opinion, does it not? Sorry if you meant something different but that’s how what you’ve written comes across? No need to be so agro, I was just trying to be a bit more balanced so those that you are accusing of being ‘unfair’ don’t feel like their opinion or feelings aren’t valid.
Maybe you were just meaning to reassure those who are yet to have it done, which is a nice thing to do (just don’t tread on those who have had difficulties which they’ve shared).
Glad it all went ok for you sam and holly I don’t think she meant it in a nasty kind of way but I’ve got to agree with her regards to the negative posts lately and I don’t think she meant for people having problem to express there feelings on here but it’s the way I’m witch some girls have written about it like making out certain sugoens doing botched jobs and slamming them down to be awful sugoens I find that a bit unfair surely if they are having such bad problems they would be keeping it of the forum and dealing with it directly with mya and the sugoens as it’s gonna frighten people that are waiting on their surgeries with certain sugoens by all mean express your feelings and problems but do it in a way that’s not frightening girls waiting to have sugury xx
Well said Holly, i too have met Mr Traynor once, he helped me with a second opinion on something, he was very kind straight to the point and informative so if asked my personal opinion of him i would speak highly, the reason some would not agree is because they may have had a poor experience, it would seem for some of those girls this has been once they had to approach him with concerns, youve never done that yet and hopefuly you wont need to! Until you know you wont have to it might be better to just give your own opinion and not draw conclusions on how others have presented their findings, i have also seen reports from girls who have had to approach him with concerns and still gave a glowing report, he’s an incredibly popular surgeon and has undoubtedly changed probably thousands of ladies lives for the better but im sure even he would admit to you not every surgery is a success and unfortunately not every bad outcome is corrected, Mya pride themselves on their forum it’s allmost what gives them their iconic staus in the field of plastic surgery because it’s open and honest so effectively you can ‘try before you buy’ by researching on here and following journeys, in my case they have kept it open & honest, ive had alot of issues ive discussed them alot on the forum and never had a post removed, i have remained respectful, not been malicious and never passed blame so to speak, i have maintained all the way through and still do that my problems i feel are down to a muscle problem, but the reason i have been able to maintain that respectful tongue is because my surgeon has acted responsibly and agreed revision so at no point have i ever had to go through the process of feeling like i have been neglected or will be left feeling/looking disfigured, not all girls have that, after 12 months on this forum i am fully aware now of just how many posts do get removed.
Congratulations on your surgery Samantha, genuinely wish a speedy recovery and a fantastic outcome xxx
I think the problem with this forum and what is annoying girls the most is how negative it is..This is a prime example, a completely positive post getting bombarded with negativity..
I’m pretty sure I wrote… “In my opinion”
Why is it always the same people who jump on people’s posts and have to throw negativity around??
This is MY post and MY opinion.
That is all β
I’m pretty sure I wrote… “In my opinion”
Why is it always the same people who jump on people’s posts and have to throw negativity around??
This is MY post and MY opinion.
That is all β
Totally agree with you Megan and Sam, always the same ones putting a negative comment in people’s positive posts.
I find it funny how someone can say “don’t tread on those who’ve had difficulties” so why tread on those who HAVEN’T had difficulties? Why cant someone put a post telling people they’ve had a good experience without someone having to put a negative spin on it? I’m so glad I had my surgery before all this bullshit started on this forum because it would have put me off completely. Nothing wrong with people putting their experience on here bad or good but there’s ways of doing it without dragging people’s names through the mud, maybe the issue is the attitude the surgeon has had to deal with, maybe they haven’t followed aftercare. There’s two sides to a story always. If someone’s written something good why go out of your way to drag it through the mud. It’s pathetic.
I guess people just like to put a downer on people who are having a good experience and cause unnecessary conflict. As long as youβre the happy one here Sam, thatβs all that matters π x
Just all seems very bitter to me. Like if they’ve had a bad experience they can’t stand the thought of someone being happy with the service and results? Childish really we should all be wishing eachother well. Never mind! Glad you’re happy sam! There’s more than enough people that are happy, unfortunate that some people have had a bad experience and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. But let people be happy for Christ’s sake lol xx
Karen can I just ask what your input is on MY post? As it seems very irrelevant. ????
Or did you just wake up on the wrong side?
@Sam, really happy it all went well for you. I too had Mr Traynor and would highly recommend him. Like you said, if you don’t follow his advice, stop sleeping in your sports bra etc etc then get issues, – No wonder! I agree if you have an issue then you should feel confident that you can air it on here for advice and feedback. But to start completely slating a Surgeon is wrong! Especially when girls are due to have their op with that same Surgeon.
I know Kelly. Maybe I should have went to some of the girls on here to do my surgery? Clearly they would have done better β
I loved the way traynor was and how he handled me. Yes blunt but what are girls expecting? To be put on his Xmas card list? Just don’t agree with girls who try to ruin a QUALIFIED surgeons reputation. I didn’t say anything bad … Just MY opinion. Nothing more… Nothing less xx
Glad all went well for you Sam, i dont understand how someone giving a run through of there op day has to cause a debate! Its ridiculas really lol… anyway i hope you are recovering well an not in too much pain! X
@sam- the girl that started slating him, had wrote in her profile, how uterlly amazing he was at her 1st appointment. Yet her post said she wanted a chaperone at her follow up as she didn’t like her experience with him! Make your mind up woman!
Such a shame that no one can even post their experiences on here anymore without girls piping up having something negative to say, go find something better to do π
Lucy I agree. Can’t write anything without people wanting an argument or be little others.
I mean do these people not have lives?? Or jobs??
Hey, girls come on, if you read my post I’m not being mean or angry towards anyone, or starting an argument. I know Sam was giving her opinion and experience which is great and helpful to all I’m sure, all I was responding to is her second post saying it’s unfair of girls to be negative. Which, of course when it’s untrue or scaremongering, it is unfair, however I think girls should also be blessed to share their problems!
I’m sure at the end of the day if any of us had a problem post op we would want to come on here and air it or maybe even rant, without someone saying it’s unfair to do so.
At the end of the day everyone should be able to express their experiences, positive or negative, and we should all be able to be balanced and see the negatives as the minority cases, fortunately.
Hope your recovery continues to go well Sam!
Holly I was just putting a post to explain part of my journey as there seems to be people eager to belittle surgeons.
I was overly happy with the way I was cared for so felt the need to share it.
But you jumping on it was unnecessary. If u felt the need to say something you should have private mailed me with the issue you have.
In my eyes surgoens are there to enhance what you already have not perform a miracles, girls are always told before if they have something different that it won’t change to much after ie a gap etc.
They are surgeons not magicians..and before you jump on in… That’s. .IN MY OPINION π
Holly I was just putting a post to explain part of my journey as there seems to be people eager to belittle surgeons.
I was overly happy with the way I was cared for so felt the need to share it.
But you jumping on it was unnecessary. If u felt the need to say something you should have private mailed me with the issue you have.
In my eyes surgoens are there to enhance what you already have not perform a miracles, girls are always told before if they have something different that it won’t change to much after ie a gap etc.
They are surgeons not magicians..and before you jump on in… That’s. .IN MY OPINION π
Wasnβt starting an argument but was picking at every slight word Sam said erm ok. Holly you turned Samβs post into a negative and thatβs why people are getting annoyed. There was no need for your comments.
I don’t know how else to phrase it and think you’re all just missing the point. Its basically like someone who had a ‘negative experience’ writing on someone’s ‘positive experience’ saying it’s unfair to write a positive review because they themselves had a negative experience.
I haven’t picked apart any language Megan, Sam DID say the exact words I quoted, and yes I quoted them so as to demonstrate the point and to be accurate. I think before you continue to have a go at me about my postings you should consider the helpfulness of your contributions as you are only coming on here to jump down my throat and be negative, stirring the pot….. Bit hypocritical, right? If you were so keen to be positive you would acknowledge both sides have a valid point.
I’m leaving this post now, I think we’re clearly just on a different level.
I think we can all agree that non of us would want this outcome, I don’t think it’s wrong of anyone to post a bad experience on a “open forum” as this is what it’s here for, congratulations for those that have the boobs of there dreams but it’s not wrong to have compassion for the girls that didn’t .x
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