My boyfriend has dumped me three weeks before my surgery :(

not really related to anything but i feel so fed up 🙁 do you think i will be ok to get my surgery done ? he lived with me too and there will be no one to have the kids now 🙁 x

oh hun no wonder you’re feeling fed up, what crap timing. Do you have any friends or family near by to help xxxxxxxxxxxx

Sweetie, really sorry to hear this. Are you okay? Silly question I know but theres okay and okay if you get me xxx
How old are the kids? Are they able to help out a little or do you need to lift them and stuff? You should be fine for surgery as you will still be pretty mobile, just restricted in what you are physically able to do. Can he not help out for a few days at all? My friend had a friend stay with her for 2 days to help with the little one mostly in and out of car seats etc, but you might just have to alter routine a little. Hopefully the others who have kids might be able to help a little more, but I hope you are okay xxx

Oh no huni 🙁 so sorry to hear that. Is there not a friend / relative that can come and stay with you? Xxx

hey thanks everyone
my brother is going to help me out , how long do you all reckon it will be til i can do the school run x

Hey Sam sorry to see that man are useless at these things anyway me and my other half broke up just after the op due to the stress I was feeling and bit being happy thinks are working out now but taking it slowly was together for 6 years but was as useless as flip flops on a rainy day. You should be ok walking doing the school run ASAP but I won’t drive for at least a week after surgery good luck hun hope all goes well for you x

i know they are a bit lol , i feel ok within myself a bit down but other than that ok . sorry to hear about your other half and you breaking up . hope it works out for you too xx

So sorry to hear this Sam,u how old are ur kiddies?i have my husband here but I’m still panicking,men can’t do anything like us women ill prob end up doing everything myself lol xxx

I’m going through the same thing right now, minus the children, and has made me more determined to carry on with it! You’ll be able to hear his jaw hit the floor once u’ve had it done 😉 think about yourself and why u wanted it done in the first place! Hope ur ok x

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