need some advice please, want to get my wife breast enlargment and have question

wife has given me great family and i am looking to repay her by getting her enlargments , due to mother nature issues , im sure you understand! she is a 34a i think, we have spoken jokingly about it, and she doesnt know im actually going to do it, but i think that we would both be under the assumption, she wouldnt want them massivley big, there are so many differnet ways to do it ie under muscle, over muscle , high profile, teardrop? etc, which advice could you give that would be the best? due to the kids she has skin shrinkage so is very flexible for space to be filled. she also has inverted nipples, so would this be a problem in the procedure, could this be repaired whilst in the procedure? i have a lot of questions but , ill see how this goes so far. please do not think im some sort of perv, these are genuine requests

If your genuinely serious about this I would suggest you have surgery conversations again with your wife I may be wrong but in my opinion it’s not really something you can “surprise” your wife with I think it’s great you can be so supportive and understanding but really she needs to be asking these questions. I would personally say if she really wants it done you could help by researching some of the best surgeons in your area. I also believe paying for a consultation is sometimes the best way from my experience. You would then both have an idea of the results she can achieve sometimes it’s not actually a choice as such a surgeon may feel she only has enough tissue for a certain size implant or will tell you the profile and shape that’s best. I really feel you should tell your wife that you would like to be there through this but let her make all the decisions as its her body and women sometimes say one thing and mean another.

Hi Martin,

I agree with Tori. It’s a lovely thing you want to do for your wife! But this is such a big procedure both emotionally and physically and is something that she would really need to think about and be sure of. Tori’s right..booking a consultation for her would be the best move!

Xx

I totally agree with Troi and Lauren , there’s not much more I can add , other than to advise you to book a consultation first … It’s probably the best move you could do and I’m sure your wife would be delighted

I agree with everyone, but I really don’t think you should go ahead and book a consultation for her without her knowing.
It’s awesome to be supportive – ask her if she’s serious, if she wants the surgery, that you’re willing to pay for everything and help her out during her recovery…
But, speaking personally, I wouldn’t like my partner to book the consultation for me. I think it would feel a little bit pushy and maybe hurt my feelings. Even though I want this procedure, I like knowing my boyfriend is happy with me as I am. Does that make sense?

I agree Chris my husband wasn’t too sure about the surgery at first and in a way it made me feel better knowing he loves me even if I don’t love myself it completely makes sense to me. Brave to post on here Martin hats off for that.

Thanks for the replies, I wasn’t going to book a consultation without her , sorry if you all thought that, it was only going to be a surprise for her, since this post , I have told her that I want to do it for her, this is something she has thought about herself in the past, but obviously is scared as it is a life changing decision. What concerns her more is the pain , and all the different types etc, as she wouldn’t want to look out of proportion. Me personally , I think that she has enough tissue for aoderate size, but I am only going of pics on google etc. Are the teardrop type more normal looking etc, these are the questions we will bring up in the consultation, was just looking for some real life opinions from the ladies that have been there and done it
I think personally that it will give her a lot more confidence, what do you all think? Does the risk payoff in the end?

Not a lot of surgeons use teardrop due to them flipping. Majority are round and can give you look you want, whether it’s a fake or natural look. Your wife is really lucky to have you there supporting her, my boufriend was really off with me about it but I went ahead without him and now he loves them! I wouldn’t change my decision of having them done at all, the risks are very small. I think the best bet would be to book the consultations, I had a big long list of questions to ask but most were answered without me even opening my mouth, they are very good at explaining everything! Also regarding pain, I had next to none and I had 400cc unders but I guess I depends on the individual!

Thankyou for your advice ladies, I will let you know of any further development’s

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