non boobie related rant!

Hey gorgeous ladies. Totally off topic (it happens occasionally) and I’m counting on my fellow boob friends for some advice! I have a 3 year old daughter with my ex and he usually sees her once on a weekend although over the last few months since he has a new partner he’s been seeing less of her. He didn’t send my daughter a birthday card or even text 2 wish her happy birthday in May and on father’s day he took his gf and her 2 year old daughter out fir the day and didn’t even invite his own daughter. He doesn’t know I know this. He drinks quite a bit (one of the reasons we split) and often uses words he shouldn’t around my daughter. Yesterday I found out his new gf (apparently) is a bit of a druggie although I have no hard evidence myself I know of her through mutual friends (& the fact she also got with my last ex wen we split up I also have a child with him) and now obviously I’m concerned about my daughter’s welfare. Unfortunately my ex is a bit of a non and not capable of having a grown up conversation so I can’t approach him about this. What do I do??? X

This may sound harsh but if he lacks the capability to see his daughter now he has a new gf then I think you are within your rights to stop him seeing her, atleast when she is around! Could you ask him to see her away from the gf or is he immature in that sense too? As long as she has you then she will be a lucky girl!!xx

Thanks hun and I have a wonderful bf who is a police officer so defo one of the good guys! My ex is immature, petty, awkward, selfish and rude so being reasonable is not an option! I told him he couldn’t see her this weekend as planned and he’s kicked off but I’d be a bad mum if I let my daughter go there after what I was told about his gf so need to work out how to approach the subject. X

Your daughter obviously is your number 1 priority and he can’t just pick and choose when he wants her in his life, also if there’s drink and drugs involved then that’s defo a good enough reason to stop him seeing her, sorry that you are going through this right now, glad you have a nice bf that can help you out and he’s a copper bloody bonus xxx

What a tricky one Hun, its good u have support from your bf though!! I don’t know how u should go about it, but if u r seriously concerned maybe u need to get some legal help? Poor u xxxxx

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