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i feel exactly the same as you did cheeky self, i know my parents will say “what you getting that done for”. i dont think im going to tell them although i am going to find it hard after the op as i live with them. have you told you parents yet? x

:bigsmile:hey ladies this is abit late of a message havent been on the internet for awhile. Iv had my breast enlargment im pleased still trying to get use to how big they are to me though my partner loves the size now, im roughly a 34C and roughly 3 weeks post op :bigsmile:

oh bless you divafly. Will try and pluck up the courage to tell my dad. I have told my aunty as we are very close too. She is my second mum. i’m just glad i appreciated my mum while she was around cause so many women don’t. Hoping mum will be looking down on me and keeping me safe when it comes to the op. (i know that sounds sad). How are you getting on with everything at the moment?

AmyLou x

Aww amylou, hornestly you are making me really emotional as i’m really sensitives when it comes to my mum. You might as well tell him and if he doesnt agree, you can explain to him how your mum was so supportive and how you wish she was here now to be there for you. I dont know, OMG i’m really getting emotional its shaming.

Hey girls my op is booked for the 3rd november so only two weeks to go! How do you pluck up the courage to tell your parents? I still haven’t told my dad as he would most likely disapprove and i don’t want to worry him. Things would be so much easier if my mum was around cause she totally supported me and wanted me to have my ba years ago! Have been getting so emotional just cause my mum isn’t around anymore and we were the best of friends and feel quite angry at myself at times cause wish that i had realised that life is too short a little sooner. Just worried that if i tell dad he will go off on one.

AmyLou x

hi dee my admission time is 3 aswell, arrrghhh! so nervous! will have to come see you when we are there, im sorry you havent been able to tell your mum, maybe you will pluck up the courage before you go! i cant believe its so close, doesnt feel real yet, probly wont till im actually lying on the operating table OMG!!!!!xxx

hey helen! im great thanks, absoloutely petrified though!! how are you?? im just about ready but kind of at the point that im having doubts…will i like them etc and what will other people think etc but im sure it will be fine! my admission time is 3pm, found out yesterday, when is yours?? i was planning on telling my mum last night, but i just cant do it…im scared of her reaction etc i have spoke with her about it before but she just doesnt understand and changes the subject so i dont have the courage to say anything which is killing me!! Adele i would love her to know but feel as though it would upset her less if she just didnt find out! what am i like!! xxxxx

hi dee,how are you? cant believe we are nearly there only 5 days to go!! are you all ready? i havent had my admission time yet, i rang them on sat and they said id prob get it monday. i agree with adele about telling your mum, if your really close to her then shed probly be really upset if you went through it all without her knowing and then she found out after. also agree on the crying bit ha ha! that always works a treat!xxx

well all i know is i could not of done it without my mum, to start with she did not approve, tried to talk me out of it, but once she knew my mind was made up she was fine, she even went with me to see the surgeon.. i would tell her, she loves you she will undersrand when she knows your reasons, cry that always does it.. lol. good luck hon..x

Hiya girls, Im having a BA this friday 23rd…only thing is i havent told my mum, i want to but just dont feel like i can as she doesnt approve. Im 21 and really close to her, not sure whether it would make her happier to tell her or do it and hope she doesnt notice,bearing in mind im having 340cc’s and only want to be a C cup ( which i look already with the amount of padding i wear)! What do you think? i really need some opinions asap as its getting close! thanks xxxx

Hi all. my partner knows that im hoping to get a breast enlargment soon, though i havent said to my friends or family. Im worried that they’ll dissaprove and try to talk me out of it. Im very small at the minute 30B sort of and hope to get to a realistic (cleavage is going to be nice) size for my body which im not too sure what that’ll be, im a size 10.
Iv been to see the first person though not the surgen yet

Is any of you going with that idea that you dont want to be talked out of the surgery

get some padded bras ACQ wear them for a while if he like my dad he prob wouldnt notice if i did anyway!lol

im 36 been married for 14 yrs with a son of 6 my hubby supports me my friend nikki supports me but am absolutly dreading my dads reaction he would say wat do u ant that done for and would see me as an embarassment i have my 1st consultation with a surgeon next wk but the thought of my dads reaction is filling me with dread i dont want him to be ashamed of me he is very old fashioned maybe i should hide them away wen i see him lol

Cheekyself- I agree with you completely; I’ve told my boyfriend and my best friend who have been very supportive (surprisingly! I was petrified to tell them!) but as for everyone else, they can think what they like, it took long enough for me to get the courage to do it, so they can save the negative comments until I’ve had it done! They wont understand, so why try to explain when I can just show them how much happier I am afterwards? x

just do it hun, seriously your body and your life if they don’t like it tough it’s not there body so why the problem?? anyone who’s negative i’d ask them why they don’t think you should do it then just explain how you feel, i’ve told most people that i’am having them done next year my mum is so supportive the only thing she said was “don’t go to big cus ya don’t wanna suffer from back ache love” haha my best mate was like “i want mine done now” and my brother was like “am i gonna get muppets coming in the shop asking is that your sister in loaded magazine” haha. i think most people know what i’am like as i really don’t care what people think about me at all, if they don’t like me for anyreason then it’s there problem haha i’am stubborn as hell and no one would talk me out of anything i wanted to do so push everyone’s feelings aside do plenty of research and if ya still want them done then just do it xx

Hi all,

I’ve only told my Fiance and 3 close friends, who have all been really supportive (although Fiance initially needed a bit of talking around!) Now he realises how much my boobs are affecting my self-confidence, he’s 100% behind me. I’ve definately avoided telling anyone who may be negative. I’m really excited, but it’s also a really scary thing, and I would hate to have to deal with the stress of negative people trying to talk me out of it! Once it’s done, people can gossip all they want! At the end of the day, if people talk behind my back, it’s probably because they’re either not brave enough to do something about the things that make them unhappy.

I think forums like this are great- you will always find supportive people on here.

xx

Oh hunny, there are lots of ppl on here who can help if u need some support! it is hard but it is so suprising how many ppl have surgery these days i live in a little village and just telling my 2 close mates i have found out that there are a few ppl in village who have botox etc so it all comes out eventually! as long as you are happy with your decision i’m sure they will come around eventually hun… and like u said if u do get them done they can worry about it after x good luck chick x

Thing is my soster fpund a letter frpm mya amd showed to my dad who said i shouldnt even think about it. Plus my brother had a clue and told me not to… Its just crazy how they will nevwr understand. My sister have perfect voobs while my dad n brother are men who will never inderstand. My boyfriend is ther for me ao i’m happy with his support. I just need for but non of them are willing tp give me.

Stick to your Guns hunny, Make sure u ask plenty of questions so you are aware whats gonna happen etc probs good and bad points(well i like to know the bad but others might not) aftercare etc. i think i am trying to be talked out of it by my Hubbie! after he said yes AT LAST, he keeps commenting on my lovely boobies but its too late my darling. I mentioned it to my 2 close friends and my mum and i was quite suprised with what they said it was “i would if i could!” its the talking about you that would do my head in i’d end up flashing or somat saying “heres something to talk about!” lol there are a few like you in the same situ on here hun so your not alone xx
Good luck on your boobie journey! x

I’m just 19.. My boyfriemd os the pnly one thar knows i’m going to have it on the 14th this month. My family will defntly say no so will my friends will gpssip. I’m totally flat. Have been wearing bra with a baloon filled with water for the past 7years. If my family finds out later i have had ba they might as well just accept since they have no option. Im already scared n nervous enough. I dont need more negetive minds. For now.

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