Partner not supportive?!

I now have an even bigger problem! My boyfriend is totally against me having a BA and now don’t know what to do.. Has anyone else had problems with partners not being supportive? xx

1. Hpw long have u been together.
2. No offence its your body and I assume ur doing it for urself not him
3. Men come and go if ur set on new boobies go for it

I think it stems from them being concerned about you having surgery and making sure your ok…..and the prospect of you having super hot boobs that other men will look at an then they tend to worry about loosing you to someone else etc….You just gotta say I’m doing it and that’s that you either support me or you don’t which is it to be? ……He’ll come round especially when he’s nuzzling his face in um! xx

Hey babe…urgh dont worry my boyfriend ‘doesnt approve’. I just explained to him how i felt, how long id wanted boobs, how i felt when i was naked…etc…n when he heard how much it bothered me he was like well…its your body. i also told him that other men wouldnt suddenly start pouncing on me just because id gone up a couple of cup sizes…i said..i wear padded bras and chicken fillets anyway so when im out they look quite substantial anyway lol. he still doesnt like talking to me about it but he isnt being so mardy now! Xx

We’ve been together 4 years so its not just I’ve only just let him.. He told me that I can do what I want but he won’t be there when I get back. Which I think is a bit extreme but I want him to be supportive! I think I might just need to work on it but I wanted to have it done in September so looks like I’m going to have to hold off fornow 🙁 xx

Hi babe, I’m having the same problem too .My partner and my best friends won’t even accompany, me to the hospital or pick me up after the Surgery . They are so Negative about Breast Implants. But i have made up my mind i booked my OP date. Also i’ve arrange for a driver to pick me up after my OP. I didn’t tell my partner or my best friend . Because i don’t want to argue with them. I’m positive that everything is gonna be fine and i will prove them wrong. I know they are saying negative stuff because it’s pure jealousy. I’m looking forward to my New Boobies lol. Good Luck!

Lauren. No offence but im a bit to point and blunt. If I was in ur shoes…. id literally go and do it… iys for you not for him. You have ur reasons. Why put something on hold if it’s for your self? I wouldn’t. If hes ready to walk away fron a 4yr relationship cuz u want new boobies. Id stand snd wave byebye. In my eyes if u ainy gunna support me I dont want u in my life. My dads funding my surgery totally disagrees with it but if it makes me happy he will support me and shit x

Lauren…have you turned on the water works? Lol. Men are so silly. Xx

Lauren my boyfriend was exactly the same, we have been together five years and he said that he would not be here if I had them done, I’m now one week post op and I’m sure he secretly loves them, if you want them doing then get them x

Same as me iv been with my partner 11 years n wanted them for years he’s always said no n he would leave me but iv explained how iv felt about it and how I feel n I booked in for a consultation n told him after I was getting them. He was funny at first but now he’s paying for them n as excited as me. It’s ur body and its up to u at the end of the day. If he loves u he will still b there for u no matter what! Xx

Thank you all so much! I thought I was the only one… Think I need to work on it a bit more but hopefully he will change his mind and support me in my decision xx

My boyfriend started of saying never, then three years, next year, christmas then agreed on my birthday in October, I then talked him into a late space in June, don’t give up haha xx

what has everyone’s partner thought after the boob op ? my boyfriend also doesn’t want me to have It done and says they don’t look nice , but I’m hoping once I have them done he will really like them ha x

Boys are so rubbish. My husband is half supportive half making it hard work. He says its not a problem but wants me to wait, but trying to have a conversation is such hardwork. I think he thinks I’m trying to push him into giving in straight away but really all I want to do is prepare him and get his opinion on shape and size etc so that he will like them as much as me after the op. I’ve shown him a few before and after pictures and he definitely doesn’t like them too big but when I ask him to tell me what shape he likes he just mumbles and wanders off. Not sure if he doesn’t want to make me feel bad about how I look now or is worried about how they will look after. Would be so much simpler if we were all born with nice C/D cup boobies!

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