peoples reactions? Started by: Leanne

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  • Leanne 41
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    Hey, so up til recently only my mam sister and work new about my op, my sister was chuffed for me, work didnt really care haha and my mam is terrified but understands why i want it done. Just told my nanna and she cried! I feel absolutely awful 🙁 she said i know its your decision but im scared if anything goes wrong, i feel like the smallest person in the world right now! Has any of your family reacted like that? I tried to reassure her and shes totally fine with me but i know shes really worried x

    Samantha 89
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    Leanne when i told my mum she said im absoloutley stupid she was so against it ‘you dont need to do that ita ridiculous’ totally against it. However, when i went for my 1 week post op with my nurse i came down the stairs an caught her in reception asking questions about breast augementation, an uplift an vaser an has decided to have all 3! Lol!!! I know other peoples reactions can make you feel abit blah especially family but remember why you’re doing it an how its going to make you feel ❤️❤️❤️

    Lucy 26
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    I have only told my boyfriend so far don’t want to tell anyone else not even my mum or other family but don’t think I will get away with it haha x

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    My family were fine, they think I’m stupid though as they think nothing is wrong with me but that’s just typical family. My partners family though have been nothing but horrible saying Who do you think you are , calling me Victoria beckham and saying I’m stupid for spending money when I could spend it on other things. They won’t help with my kids so my partner is having time off and every time we go out they’re always mentioning it and telling everyone they see but I don’t care I’m doing it for me and no one else. Not every one has to agree with you as long as it makes you happy and I’m sure your nan will be fine with it in the end xx

    Leanne 41
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    Samantha that sounds like my mam ha, shes starting asking questions and saying shes gonna see how mine turn out then think about it herself! ?
    Yeh lucy i was gonna try just not telling her but if she found out afterwards shed be gutted it didnt come from me i think! Chelsea thats awful! Some people can be so quick to judge, theres no need! But yeah totally agree, we do this for us nobody else so what should it matter what they think x

    carlymarie 17
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    My dad is against it and my sisters an absolute nightmare! But like I keep saying it’s my body!

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