PLEASE HELP! Major doubt!:/

Ladies a bit of an odd question, maybe even laughable but have any of you ever had a moment where you missed your lil boobs? Even if you’re super happy with your new ones do you ever just get a lil sentimental? Cause I’ve just had a mini panic that when I look down they won’t be “mine” anymore so to speak and I’d never get my lil boobs back… I know it’s crazy but just wondered if anyone had gone through that? Also I haven’t had kids yet and I’d say if I had to live with the boobs I’ve got forever they’re not too bad, the shape is fine it’s just the size, I feel like a young teen sometimes, so I’d like a more womanly look but when I read about women who really had no boobs or had kids etc i question whether my reason for such a drastic change is big enough?:/

I’ve had children and also have zero and I mean zero boobs. And I’m 2 days post op and I miss them! I miss my tiny little frame but I also know I will learn to love my new boobs too and they will become part of me.

I was the same I was quite happy with myself and honestly could have lived without boobs..but I just wanted them and I don’t regret getting them done…even though it’s day two lots of bed rest and they are currently quite far apart…but I’m trusting the process. I could wear a padded bra to get the size they are now and no one would know but I am throughly enjoying knowing what’s under my sports bra is real….or fake lol

I don’t regret my boobs for a second, nor have I once missed my old teeny mosquito bites. I have one child (I don’t want anymore) and I was a 28AA pre op. I had no boobs. But I couldn’t have waited any longer for my op- I wanted them so bad. It wasn’t just a decision made easily for me, it was something I felt I needed x

Literally the best desicion I have ever made. You won’t regret it for a minute. It’s amazing how it just doesn’t change your body but your mind too X

I’m quite similar to you, as I wouldn’t say I “hate” my boobs the shape is fine but like you I dislike the size and feel like a teen.

I’ve had the same thoughts as you and it’s taken me around 3 years to finally think yes, I definitely want this change. Don’t rush yourself hun, make sure you really think it over. Whatever you decide has to be right for you 🙂 x

I had 4 kids my boobs were fine as in the shape they weren’t saggy I was a size 34a/b I had a bit of boob I could get cleavage with a padded bra, I wasn’t that unhappy that I wouldn’t take my top off in front of a partner or anything but I don’t miss them, I’m 18dpo n I love my boobs (I’m sick of the bra) I love that I can put a top on n have boobs, I’m so happy with my figure now I just want to tone my bum n tum, I can’t wait to go shopping for bras and tops in a few weeks, best thing I’ve done, prior to my op I was worried wat size I’ll be the amount it costs the complications, now the only thing I don’t like is they are quite veiny but like wen I was pregnant I’m hoping this goes but if not I can live with it,i might do a post to ask others about this xx

I have three children and if I could have had it done when I was younger I sure would have done.
As much as I know have kids should be a problem after implants, I’m glad I had my kids first.
I did go up an incredible amount Brest feeding my last child, that confirmed it for me to get it done.
I do love them, there no were near the size they were at the time I breastfeed but I knew I after that I didn’t want to be quite that size.
No regrets from me. Xx

@ibird omg I literally think the same thing I thought this was just me! I think i’m just panicking now because my surgery is booked but I swear every single day since i’ve booked my actual surgery i’ve looked in the mirror and thought there’s nothing wrong with the boobs that I have 🙁 and I’m scared I’ll miss them. I know it sounds crazy, sometimes I just love the fact that I can put on a padded bra and make them look the size I want and then at the end of the day take my bra off and be back small again. I question why i’m doing it because i am confident in my own skin but this is something that I have wanted for years and I just need to keep telling myself that x

@Lauren diamond aw I hope you’re having a smooth recovery! Is it weird looking at them on you now? I definitely agree that any mother whose sacrificed her body for her kids deserves to treat herself by taking it back! Haha

@hannah oh wow, sounds like the decision ran deep for you, really happy to hear it was the right move for you but omg haha mosquito bites! X

@phoebe ooh I really hope I feel like that when I finally have mine done, tbh I don’t even know where this doubt came from, I think it’s because my consultation is on Saturday so it’s no longer a wish but reality now! X

@hannah yes exactly! Well I haven’t liked mine since they stopped really growing around 15, so I’ve wanted this changed for 6years maybe longer, ah good on you! X

@chloe yeah I’m a 34a/b aswell and like you said I can get a bit of cleavage but I’m tired of the fact that they disappear as soon as I take my bra off. Ah all sounds exciting!! Yeah please tag me in it too if you make a post cause I might have that aswell idk xx

@claire yeah I definitely get you, heard it’s so much better to have them done after kids but I’m hoping it’ll be another good few years yet before I have any kids and I don’t want to wait that long for boobs, it’s either I do it now or not bother haha xx

@zara Speaking my mind girl! Although I don’t love my boob size in a bra all the time I just want to stop feeling like a teen when I see my boobs in the mirror but they’re not in my way, or cause major boob sweat, I can sleep on my tummy etc but I know I reaaally want bigger boobs I’m just scared of all the risks involved! I’d be confident in your skin too, you’re stunning Hun! X

No I understand as I said if had of been in a better position when I was your age I personally would have jumped at the chance.
I tock photos of myself with the implants I was trying in so I could go home to reassure me self on it stayed freash in my mind. Xx

Maybe give yourself a little time to think about it. It is a big decision and once it’s done you can’t just go in and say I’ve changed my mind and get your old boobs back…
I’ve never had boobs… I’ve wanted a BA for 8 years. I had the finances to get it done 8 years ago but decided to wait to make sure it was definitely what I wanted. Then I had another child, we moved house, built an extension, I went to uni… all sorts got in the way. The whole time I knew I still wanted boobs as soon as I could afford them again.
We are getting married next year and I didn’t want loads of photos of me in a dress with no boobs so I finally decided that this year was the year and I did it… just over a week ago, I haven’t regretted it for a second and I haven’t had a single down moment I’m on cloud nine. I love them they are perfect. When I look back at my before pics of can’t believe I coped so long with my non existent flat chest….
Good luck deciding hun x

@claire such a good idea I hope i remember to do that!

@kelly I’ve seen yours, great shape! No I’ve known for 6years or more that I really want them bigger but it’s just because it’s such a big decision like you said so I’m just making sure I’m asking myself all the way questions good n bad. Thanks! X

I haven’t had mine done yet (op is in November) but I know what you mean! I’ve always hated them, too small & not in proportion to the rest of my body. However since booking in I have thought “are they really so bad? Do I really need to spend all that money? Do I really want all that pain?!”

It’s a bit like day you’re going to the hairdressers and know you’ll come out £80 lighter… you hair always goes so nice that day and you think do I really need to go or can I push it on a week or so?!

Never the less I’m still going through with it but I’ll prob miss them as they’ve been with me for 30 years! X

@sarah exactly it’s just the thought of I’m never going to have these boobs again, once I get on that operating table my boobs as I know will change forever even if I get the implants out they won’t be the same but then I see so many girls after surgery pictures and I’m like that’s what I want! Ah decisions! I hope your surgery goes smoothly ! X

@ibird aww thank you lovely. It’s such a scary decision thank God I’m not the only 1 thinking these things I thought I was going crazy. I never had the money to do it before and other things got in the way and now everything’s paid for I’m like ahhh :/ is this what I want even though I’ve thought about it for so long. I looove lying on my front and I don’t know if I’ll still be able to do that with bigger boobs! Xx

@zara I’ve seen girls post about boob pillows which make it comfy to lie on your boobs but I’m like omg that’s hassle but in saying that I’m tired of my bf lying on my chest and I can feel he’s basically lying on a rib cage cause I have a decent size gap between my breast too, I’m tired of beautiful clothes not fitting cause I have barely any boob to work with and I’m tired of girls walking past with nice breast because it instantly makes me feel like a child compared to them and I hate it cause I have such a mature personality and face but I feel from the hip up it’s just a teenage girl, so I love these forums cause you can express doubts and concerns and girls whose already gone through the procedure can give you an insight in how to deal with it and if those kind of things go away. And you’re welcome Hun!:) I think cause like you said it’s turning into reality now so the real questions are kicking in! Xx

I’m the same, i wanted this since i was 13 and im only 18 now and im super scared im gonna regret this. Im a dancer and super active so if this physically holds me back in any way , i know i will have massive regrets and i feel like i underestimated the severity of this op. Havent even told any of my family yet! however then i think, theres no time like the present, its booked and paid so its not like im gonna go back now. Alot of it is just anxiety and im sure we will all be super happy and feel more confident and feminine and be glad we had the balls to actually do it x

@millylondon yeah I’m only 21 and have been thinking about this for like 6+ years, but never thought it was an option for us “normal” girls. Ooh what size are you hoping to go then if you’re quite active? Ah I hope we’ll all love our results! X

I’m 7wks post op, I don’t regret having my boobs done but they do my head in now I’m aloud to sleep on my side lol I used to cuddle right in to my partner but can’t now as I feel uncomfortable!! I no I’ll get used to them in a few more months.. shaving my legs using my right arm to shave my left leg now I have boob in the way haha…. but no I definitely don’t regret having mind done it’s been the best thing I’ve done! You will learn to love you boobs without a doubt xxx

@ishmarie Yes totally get that, theres alot of social stigma behind the “type” of people who do it, which is crazy when you look at the genuine reasons we all have for wanting larger boobs. Honestly they are for myself and noone else- not to “please men”! Whens your operation? I am getting 350 & 400, which will get me to around a DD apparently, im hoping no bigger! hopefully after a while i can be my normal active self. Good luck babe xx

@ishmarie Thank you so much for starting this stream, I have had the exact same thoughts and its so reassuring to find out that other people have the same doubts!! I have just had my first consultation in the Liverpool Clinic and i want them as natural looking as possible but i’m worried I will miss my little boobs as well – i’m worried I wont be able to work out as much as i do now but then I hate seeing so many clothes go to waste because i don’t have the confidence to wear them once i get them home haha I’m trying to do as much research as possible, i’m 75% sure i want to go through with it – need to get 100% but I don’t feel so alone now 🙂 x

@milly London exactly my thoughts! I’d never do something so drastic just to please a man or so called friends, just had my pc consultation today, looking around mid October for surgery. Ooh nice! I hope it all goes amazing for you and thanks! Xx

@kate o’brien aw it’s fine babe! I’m surprised myself how many girls were thinking the same thing! Same just had mine today! Yeah so many clothes that I can’t wear or don’t look as good as they could. Ah do you do a lot of chest workouts? X

I haven’t had my op yet I’m in on Thursday!!! But I keep looking at my boobs thinking maybe there not so bad and I actually like them!! I’ve wanted them done for years so I know I won’t regret it, maybe just the nerves! Xx

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