Pre surgery nerves???

i dont know why but i feel a little teary almost.
I told my partner he should go see the movie hes been waiting for tonight, because if i feel like i really need him around post op
i’ll be annoyed if hes going out to watch movies etc.
So he’s gone to see the hobbit tonight and i just feel so anxious without him. I suppose4 theres no need for him to actually be here, i dont need help
with anything, all im doing is sitting with my sons, i’ll give them a bath then pack my hospital bag and thats it.
but i feel so anxious. i rang my mom because i just start sweating and shaking and feeling teary.
whats wrong with me? of course im nervous but is this overboard?
On the plus side i made my last supper double egg and chips 🙂 maybe a mince pie later tonight and then fasting is on

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U in tomoro hun?. If so good luck. Got mine on tues.. was so nervous last week but im fine this week but I no come monday night ill be a nervous n emotional. Its a big thing but will be worth it in the end xx

Ahhh babes i’ve been feeling the same today and i’ve still got a week!!!
I’ve literally changed my mind 20 times today and keep thinking of cancelling it! ..

I think were all in the same boat and all go through the same rollercoaster,
So try your best to keep calm and think by Late tomorrow/Sunday you will be back at home with your babies looking forward to Christmas.

Theres nothing worse than the wait so just try keep busy and have a nice relaxing bath – Those I will miss while waiting for scars to heal xxxxxxxxx

Hi Hun I was exactly the same last night because I had my op today I had a little melt down n was crying I think it’s normal just nerves but I think it’s good to get that out, as today I have been absolutely fine haven’t got upset at all been excited just a little nervous as normal but iv been fine xxx

I am so nervous too Scarlett we’ll be fine though 🙂 I’m on Tuesday Chanel, where are you?!

Thnxs so much girls. Honestly I felt alone on this issue. I am very happy and excited etc
But I was worried I was the only one getting ready and emotional. Yeah @chanel I’m in tomorrow 10am
I’ve since spoke to my PC and my mom and they have both talked me down and reassured me that I’m feeling normal. Thnxs too @kayleigh how are you feeling?? I was thinking of you today. I think you’re right perhaps it’s best I have a little cry and get all those emotions out. It is a roller coaster and it’s all part of the journey. We’ve all waited so long and when it’s finally there I just feel scared. Apparently the hospital staff are wonderful at Preston plus Dr Mounir calms your nerves (I was nervous just for my consult!)
Means a lot to me though girls, thank you

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Also I think it’s because so many people in my family and friends don’t know I’m having it done. So it’s a lot on my shoulders I think?
Only my fiancé and mom know so I think it’s the worry if what people will say after that’s affecting me too 🙁

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It’s totally understandable I’m feeling exactly the same. Mines on Sunday and i also haven’t told all the family and the pressure is def making me emotional. I’ve also not told my girls as I don’t want them to worry about their mum but the guilt is overwhelming, I’ll tell them after when they can see I’m ok. I just think it’s part if the process to feel every emotion possible, we have to remember how great it’s going to feel after. Good luck tomorrow xx

Oh good luck hun @scarlett where u havin op at n what size u gone for ?.. @Hayley im at preston on tues. U? Xx

Oh I’m at Highgate in London…good luck girls 🙂 x

Good luck for today @Scarlett xxx

Hey girls I was the same, I just got really stressed and couldn’t concentrate on anything, I’ve only told my mum boyfriend and a couple of close friends!
I’m still hoping none notices! Christmas Day at the dinner table will be fun!!
Good luck girls! Hope everything goes well!
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@beca2 ha! That’s like me Xmas day, I’ve bought a biggish top and scarf hoping no one will notice, I’ll tell then when I’m ready, wouldn’t be able to handle any negative comments so early on. Explaining why I’m not drinking will be interesting as we’re usually doing shots by 6! X

@scarlett by the time you log in again on here, you’ll be done! Good luck xx

Hahah shots on Christmas day! Yeah I just don’t want to have to show everyone haha my family (the girls) will all want to see! And just because I’ve had my boobs done doesn’t mean I’ll be getting them out to everyone haha. My cousin said to me ages ago not to get them done as it looks tacky!! Grrr hopefully she will change her mind when I eventually show her!
I hope I can drunk my Christmas, I’m going to wear a jumper Or something and hope the wine is opened quickly and they don’t notice anything haha
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Goodluck for today darl! you’ll be fine and I think if you weren’t nervous that be weird lol it’s totally normal I know I will cry like a baby I always do I even got a sticker and lolly pop at a dentist lol xx

Good luck with today. I hope it all goes well. Xx

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