Pregnant

I’m in a really confused place right now I had my boobs done 8 weeks ago and iv found out I’m pregnant I’m not sure what to on the situation right now but in worried if I do keep the baby hoe it’s gonna effect my boobs I dnt want to be at square one with saggy breasts my boyfriend desperately wants the baby I thought I was done having kids but I just dnt knw anymore I feel selfish thinking about my boobs and I knw if they was perfectly fine after I wouldn’t question about the baby but I spent all my my money on this ba/uplift I dnt want it to be a waste but I dnt want to regret not keeping the baby I’m so stuck has anybody else ever been in this situation if so could you plz give me done advice I feel so confused help x

I thought he same thing ive been off my pill for 3 weeks and was told not to take it I am worried I could be and told my bf if I am just after my boobs we can’t have one just yet as I already have a 4 month old ( new boobs ) and a 4 year old … I sounded selfish but I’ve had my kids and I have spent so much money and dremy for my boobs to be done. Just take a long think about it babe u dont sound selfish and this is what I would be like xxx

Hi hun, its a tough one but if i were you i would speak to your surgeon and see what he thinks about how the pregnancy will affect your boobs. I completely understand your worries. Myself, I would keep the baby as it is a part of you and your partner. and you may regret it later if you decide to not keep it. Your breasts may still be ok after the pregnancy, just keep fingers crossed xx

and good luck whatever you choose to do – I’m having an uplift and implants in 3 weeks xxx

I dnt want to tell my boyfriend my doubts are because my boobs as he will get mad about it although he’s supported me on my boobjob he wasn’t happy about it and so I knw if I say that’s my doubts hel flip he just doesn’t understand why in so bothered about my body if he loves me I guess I got overly confident with new boobs and our sex drive as been more then normal it didn’t even cross my mind to be more careful I just didn’t think I’ll be in this situation so soon I know my boyfriend is really hurt and he wants me to make a decision so he can deal with it but I can’t do it that fast how do I actually get in touch with my surgeon to discuss things x

call you pc and tell her the situation and that you want your surgeons opinion. Would you have kept the baby if you didn’t have your boobs done? whatever the answer to that question is, thats what I think you should do hun! money comes and goes, your baby is special. They might be fine after the baby anyway and if they aren’t, you could maybe get revision surgery? Take your time, its a important decision and think about what your boyfriend wants too hun! xx

It’s a difficult situation to be in however I read an article which said that if you won’t breastfeed and keep the sportsbra at all times your breast should be fine. At the end it is decision which both of you should make and I’m sure you will. I would contact the professional for an advice about the boobies so you can get it clear hun. Best wishes xxx

Iv messaged my PC but she’s now left so I dnt exactly know who in dealing with or if theyl even get bk to me I really hope somebody get a back to me soon I iv been googling and I keep seeing different things about it I just dnt think I can afford another 7 grand for another boob job I knw Jordan’s had loads of kids and her boobs must be ok but then again she had a lot of money to fix them x

Hope your ok Laura it must be a very difficult situation! I think the best advice is to speak to your surgeon and then make a decision about whats more important to you. Personally I don’t know how pregnancy will effect your new boobs but I do know that when I went for my first consultation I was told if i wanted more children to wait as they would need re-doing. I went ahead anyway and would be interested to know how it would effect them. Good luck with whatever you decide hun xx

I’ve had a ba four years ago and I have a 6 month old and breast fed him. An mine r ok I’m just wanting to go alit bigger.

I knw I was told to wait as well I really did think I was done with having children this was so unexpected I’m just worried cuz I caught so early like it’s only been 8 weeks since my op I’m so worried itl wreck them completely because I haven’t give them chance to heal

Thought u shouldn’t get pregnant year after op I think I read that somewhere…you need to ring up or c a nurse or doc first…not sure if its safe to even have a baby…good luck on whatever you decide to do xxx

Hey huni you need to think about wot you want I know it’s cost a lot of money for the uplift but set that aside and think about you as its only money and easy to get back and replace than baby but if you keep the baby its 50/50 as my sis inlaw fell pregnant af uplift in implants and the only reson they went a bit saggy was because she puts on quite lot of weight 2stone more than wot she was I got friends who have had kids on BA and they have been fine but if worse comes to it u had the uplift now and if u needed and anther op you would just need a normal BA with bigger implants xx

Laura you don’t sound selfish at all. I am 28 had my first daughter at 17 then another age 22 and then another a year later. I breast fed them all and from the birth of my first I wanted a ba. So I have hung on dreaming for 11 years and finally 2 weeks ago my dreams came true. I love my daughters and wouldn’t have done anything different or had my ba any sooner. Both myself and my husband decided that we would not have anymore children after my ba.
I have spent years through my teens and twenties feeling so self conscious and even breaking down because going swimming on holiday with my girls would fill me full of dread.
Everyone has different opinions and only you know what is right for you. Good luck Hun x

Awwww Amy im down with wot you have posted chick I was 20 when I had my girl then I meet my partner 9 years later had little boy who’s 7 now we said if was going to have more we would do it b4 we was 40 and we had him nearly 4 years ago now and breast fed all 3 so from a 38FF/G cup I’ve always had big breast and lost them af my 3 rd child and went to DD cup saggy skin I was so upset and hated them worked n saved up hard and got my op done me n my partner are 36 now and we said we didn’t want anymore children but in October I fell pregnant and we both said we couldn’t do it all over again I new my body wasn’t up for it so we did wot we needed to do anther baby to us would have been strin on our family unit my girl is 16 sons 7 4 I felt bad but it was right thing for us to do x

Oh Hun what a tricky situation! I had my daughter at 19 (I’m now 21) and am having a BA in April and not sure I want any more children after my BA as pregnancy really affected my boobs! Speak to your surgeon as your new boobs might not be able to take the strain of pregnancy. Good luck and congrats on both the baby and boobs. Do what feels right in your heart and try to think of the long term affects of either decision xx

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