Really really need help!!!

So, today I had ANOTHER consultation with Mr.Traynor- he was even confused as to why I was booked in to see him again… NOW he’s made me think twice about getting it done again..

there are so many pros and cons with getting a BA and I am now doubting myself after Mr.Traynor has told me he does not want me to get them done, he has told me to come home and think about it again because he doesn’t think I need it doing at all.

When talking to my family and boyfriend, they have said the exact same. Deep down I know there is nothing wrong with my boobs but I do not feel 100% confident when on holiday and in a bikini. I don’t think I am flat chested but whenever I am only holiday and see girls with their boobs done I always want mine doing- I get so embarrassed to be in a bikini when everyone else’s boobs look fine!!

I’m saving for a mortgage with my boyfriend and even though he has said he will support me through whatever decision I make, I keep thinking to myself if there is nothing in particularly wrong with my boobs, why should I be selfish and spend so much money on them??

I am so sorry to basically have a break down on this!! But all my boyfriend keeps saying is he will support me and my family just tell me not to get it done. I need the perspective of people going through the same thing/been through it!

Sorry again!!
Lauren xxx

By the way, I couldn’t fault Mr.Traynor one bit. He is a lovely man and is great with advice!!
He has just confused me after telling me to think about it for a few weeks xx

By the way, I couldn’t fault Mr.Traynor one bit. He is a lovely man and is great with advice!!
He has just confused me after telling me to think about it for a few weeks xx

Aww Lauren, I feel for you! It’s such a big decision so it’s normal to feel like this. From your picture you still look young so maybe give it some time and see if you still want them done then?
I was due to get my boobs done almost two years ago and ended up not getting them done as it wasn’t the right time career wise. I’m looking at getting them done this year but mine are really small for my frame and don’t look good at all.

Yeah I’m only 20… my boyfriend said wait a few years and see if I’m still desperate to get them done and then if I am then I should go ahead with it.. like you said it’s such a big decision to make, I had my mind completely set on getting them done until 2 hours ago when Mr.Traynor said he doesn’t want me to get them done;/ Thank you for your help xxx

@emzk28 thankyou for your help! Are you glad you waited? or do you wish you had got them done beforehand?

I just don’t want to wait a few years down the line, have to save all the money up just to go through the same procedures… My operation is supposed to be in 7 weeks and I feel like its too late to back out xx

No worries, I know what it’s like to be in your shoes. It’s not too late to back out. You shouldn’t feel trapped – if you’re not 100% on getting them done don’t feel forced to. I am glad I waited to be honest as i know it wasn’t the right time! What size are you now if you don’t mind me asking? It’s a compliment from a surgeon to say you don’t need them done!

I know , I just feel like I’ve wasted their time and effort. I’m a 34B-C. I was going to get 400cc and 450cc but I didn’t want massive boobs. I just wanted them a little more full. I thought my first consultation he was just joking but this time he told me he wouldn’t feel comfortable doing it for me.. That’s made me doubt it haha !! xx @emzk28

Don’t be silly! Consultations are there to get guidance and for you to actually speak to the surgeon. If I were you, I would probably wait a while and see if you still want it done. No rush if you’re still only 20 but it’s entirely up to you. It’s your body and your decision.

Totally understand where your coming from! I think everyone considering a BA goes through the ‘do I really need it’ phase lol. If you’re not completely sure about it it’s maybe best to wait a couple of years and see how you feel, you wouldn’t want to spend all that money and maybe regret it later. I’m 22 but been wanting mine done since about 16 cause I literally have nothing lol. At the end of the day though it’s your decision rather than anyone else’s! X

Yeah I think I will, thanks your help. Really appreciate it! @emzk28 xx

Thank you!
That’s exactly what I’m thinking- don’t want to spend all the money based on the 1 reason I’m getting it done.
Thanks xx

No worries 🙂

Lauren I seen your photo on another post and your boobs are perfect! I have just had mine done with Mr Traynor 7 weeks on wed and love them so far but I was a size A – non existent so it’s all I’ve ever wanted. You’re still so young, I don’t know if you plan to have babies in the future but I do in maybes a year or 2 so no doubt will probs need them done again. That is maybes something worth thinking about. Good luck xxx

Aww Hun honestly id listen to my traynor if he’s telling you you really don’t need them and he wouldn’t feel comfortable then I’d listen to him if he was just thinnking of the money he be telling you to get them regardless I had him 7 months ago Hun and couldn’t fault him he doesn’t jokily day to most girls that we don’t need it doing but I think that’s hes yeRs of working doing reconstruction for the nhs sounds like he’s being serious to you and to save you regrets later on Hun I’d listen to he’s advise xxx

@jodiexs aww thankyou! Yeah that’s something I was worried about. My boyfriend has said consider getting them done after kids but don’t get them done yet if I’m doubting it. Thanks Hun xxx

@staceymlx … aw definitly… I agree and it has made me change my decision. Think I’ll take his advise seen as though he is the expert! Thank u xxx

Aww yeah maybe once I have had kids and hey change them get them done but for the moment I’d leave them as lone there defo perfect to start with xx

Heya I’ve always wanted mine done but knew I wanted children and desperately wanted to breastfeed so I waited and waited until that all happened and I’m so glad I did cos I wouldn’t have wanted to waste money getting them done then fixing them after babies.
Your so young and if surgeon says you don’t need one then he is 100% telling you the truth,what an amazing compliment! Xxx

@staceymlx yeah that’s great advice, aw thankyou Stacey xx

@kymmy211215 … great! That’s something which I knew I needed to consider. Will definitly take your advice. I know and yea Mr.Traynor is great and says it how it is. Thanks Hun xxx

Hi It sounds like you already have lovely boobs or your surgeon would of been keen to do them. If it is because you want bigger then have them done. My friend just had her 36DD enlarged to enormous- she is now happy, I would of been happy with her original but I’m Me, she is her and your you, so you must do what makes you happy. It is a very painful procedure though and you will need done at least twice in your life time, so also consider that, but if you want bigger go for it. X

Aw what a lovely thing to say, yeah I totally agree. I definitly want it done otherwise I wouldn’t have got so excited for it. But I think after the shock of what he’s said I’ve realised it’s not the right time just yet. I totally agree that it’s not up to anyone else though. I have to make the decision myself???? thanks for your help xx @aaaangell

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