Single ladies? Started by: Belle265

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    Bit of a strange question but I have recently come out of a relationship and therefore am newly single. I sometimes wonder what it will be like ‘dating’ people after having a BA. Obviously this was never a concern up until now as I was in a relationship. I should mention that I have wanted this for years and doing it for myself completely, but as I am planning to keep this a secret from most people anyway, this would obviously now include any future partners. .Are there any single ladies on here who can offer advice? Will it be really obvious to people who I date in future that I have had a BA? Or will it be something i could just reveal later on if I wanted to? Obviously I know there will be scarring etc but will it be really obvious as soon as they see you naked? I realise this probably sounds really silly and i wont be blurting out “bythewayihadaboobjob” to every man i meet but I’m genuinely interested in whether this has crossed anyone’s mind before, particularly people who are keeping their BA a secret. Thanks x x x

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    hey hun, I’m far from single, but it can be hidden, you don’t have to tell anyone you don’t want to, obviously there is the whole ‘ why couldn’t you be honest from the start’ argument, but it is your body, and no one can make a judgement on what you have done, or going to do
    I didn’t tell many before, and people still don’t believe I had it done, so it truly can be hidden, but sometimes honesty is the best policy especially starting a new relationship with someone you think you could see yourself being with for more then a few weeks xx

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    Thanks love. I guess it’s just on my mind cause I always thought I would be going into this when in a long term relationship and obviously that has changed. The thought of being single again is scary enough without thinking about whether I have to be up front about this too. Obviously I would plan on telling anyone who became important to me in the future but its good to hear that it won’t be totally obvious to anyone who sees them! Thanks lovely x

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