Single parent…how did you cope post op?

Hi all…
As it says I’m in my own with a 9&8 year old who are fabulous but I am worried about the little things of caring for them after….
I haven’t told them (don’t want to ex to know)

Xx

Hi Hun I wasn’t a single parent but my hubby got called two work he works away 2 days after my op I managed totally fine my youngest was 18 months and them I had a 7 and 11 year old befor my op I deep cleaned my house as knew I wouldn’t be able to do anything but I managed to hoover on day 3 I put everything I needed at hand reach I didn’t find it all that difficult but everybody is different you kids a lil older so you should manage just fine Hun I found it easier with my older ones than my 18 month old xxx

Just super prep hun with food..cleaning..washing etc. . and do as little as poss for the 1st week.
Ive found in the past at times like this its helped me realise my daughter could do a lot more than id let her lol. I did everything for her as a single mum until she was 10. I had flu once and she really had to help me then when she was around 8. It was a blessing in disguise as she carried on after.. tidying up after herself and making a sandwhich etc.. which she ended up love doing and called it her Jessy Surprise lol. I bet your kids will feel all grown up having to step up a bit. Another lady on here said she told her kids she had a really bad back after her op as it was a secret and her kids helped out more.. great idea i think x x x

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