Lol you’ll get there, yes that’s awful, I got a numb bum lol at first… I’m 3 weeks tomo and still sleeping propped up, as it’s still a bit uncomfy on my side still, someone also says it helps drain the fluid away? Get a hot water bottle for your bum it helped me a bit… My o.h must be fed up with me I have half the bed full of v pillows and about five others pmsl. Hope u get to sleep more comfy soon. Xxx