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    hey ladies 🙂
    just wanted to ask about your boyfriend/ hubby….. how did they react or support you??
    my boyfriend was great when I told him about me wanting a BE at first and now I have booked my surgery and paid for it he has told me he dosent want me to have it done? and that he wont take time off work to help me with our son… he is 7 month and need a lot of looking after now he is getting about.
    im scared that if I get this done it would end us for good..
    what do I do????

    Julieg1 1
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    I’m sorry to hear this. He might be sacred for you deep down or he might be jealous worried about you meeting someone else once you’ve had them done. Who knows what goes on in their heads. Can you get help from any other members of your family. My husband has been really supportive. But the rest of my family don’t know.

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    I have no idea what goes on in their heads I really don’t and all my family work…. I went ahead with booking and paying for it all because he told me he would take 3 weeks off work to help me

    Julieg1 1
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    Theres time for him to change his mind yet (trying to be positive for you) don’t worry . What date is your surgery? Mines Tuesday and to be honest I’m shitting myself

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    I hope so, and thank you.. my date is the 22nd of this month so not long at all,, and im sure you will be fine once they are done

    Alice
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    Hey Jessica,
    I think you’ll be fine and he will support you once the time comes as he won’t want to see you not being able to get about. Tbh that stage only last a few days. By the 4th day you’ll start to become more mobile.
    Men will never understand that a woman might just want to do something enhancing just for themselves lol! It’s just an insecurity they have and I think most girls on here have experienced the same in some way or another with their boyfriends or husbands. Once you reassure him (probably a few times) that it’s not to leave him and get another guy he’ll start to feel better and come around.
    Plus men like the idea of feeling like men and once you have the op and need to rely on him that little bit more he’ll be secretly loving it!
    Best of luck, I’m sure it’ll work out x

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