Telling the family

I have just booked my op for the 3rd of Setember. Excited but so nervous.
I have told my Dad and sister who arent happy but are supportive, but am so nervous to tell my mum as she has always been so against it. As I am at university I am wondering if I can get away with not telling her. What do you guys think? Did anyone else have problems?

Thanks 🙂

heyy! mine is the 3rd of september aswell 😀 i’m very excited no nerves yet…all my family have been fine about mine but my mum would get stressed at if she started because she let my sister have it done…am sure your mum will be alright after she’s got over the shock at the end of the day you have to remember they only want whats best for us and for us to be happy 🙂 hope this helps xx

Hi Jess! Thanks for the reply! Yey, we can go through this together. What hospital are you going to?

I am still quite young (only 19) and at University, so obviously in her opinion, there is better things I could spend my money on. I am not going much bigger, just a 32A to full C (hopefully). How about you?

x

heyy yeahh we can 🙂 preston hospital you? i’m only 20 hun not much older then you, try to explain to her why your having it done, she cant really do much about it just have a strope for abit but she might understand you never no unless you try! i’m hopfuly go to D cup xx

Hey girlies, ive not booked mine yet but im definitely going to! In the process of saving. And told my mum and dad yesterday who told me i am completely stupid and that Ill never have their approval. But i just told them Im going to do it anyway! My boyf also is weird about me doing it but to be honest i think its just the people who care about you the most that dont want you to do it because they are worried. which i totally get! I just think we are adults and can make our own decisions so if its something you have wanted for ages then it shouldnt matter what others think. I know that once I’ve had it done my boyf will love them as much as i do and my parents will slowly come around. Chin up hun 🙂 Can i add u? xx

heyy hun! yeahh i agree with that, your mum wont always feel like that though it’ll just take time for her to get use to it, yeahh add away hun 🙂 and soph i’v added you hope thats okay 🙂 xx

Hey Becky, yeah I know its only because she cares but I just really dont want the argument when I eventually tell her. Ah the saving process! T’was a nightmare but such a nice feeling knowing i’m paying for it myself. Yes, please do add me, its so much nicer having people to talk to about this. Hopefully I will be able to help when you come to booking 🙂

Jess- If you dont mind me asking- What size implants are you having? Im trying to decide between 300cc and 350cc as I want a full C but dont want them to look too fake. So much choice!! x

i’m having 300cc hun if your not sure book another appointment to see your pc and try them on again, i’v added you hun 🙂 who’s your surgeon? and which hospital?
becky – i’v accepted your request 🙂 xx

I had 295cc’s two weeks ago at Preston and gone from more or less nothing 34aa/34a if that to full C cup if that helps. I may measure more at 6 wks, but currently filling m and s c cup sports bra. Hope this helps. If anyone has any questions please feel free to ask xx

Hey, mine is booked for 29th October and I’m so nervous! I e told my mum, she wasn’t happy but is being supportive. I have not told my dad and I’m dreading it, he will be horrified and totally against it! I’m thinking will I get away without telling him, could I say its a padded bra!! I really don’t no what to do! X

I had 300CCs from an A 🙂
I told my mum and she wasn’t very happy as she said she thought I would look fake but when she saw the results she agreed that they didn’t look fake and I was in proportion :)xx

Francesca do you mind me adding you? xx

You just have to ride it out my mum was so against it but now she’s seen the results she wants one!!!

Not at all aimsybee, add away xx

Francesca do you mind if I add you? whats your finished result with the 300cc? and who did you go with? (sorry for questions)

I told mum this morning- she is disappointed because she wants me to love my body but I have her support. phewwwwwwww. such a relief.
Thanks for all the advice 🙂

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