Hi ladies. New to the forum but not new to the journey. I’ve wanted augmentation since I was 18. I’ve had several consultations over the years but have never actually gone ahead. Something always came up that was more important. Well now I’m 39, barrelling towards 40 and wishing I’d had the nerve to just go through with it 20 years ago. My eConsultation is Wednesday and I’m hoping to have my surgery in September (not sure who with yet). Problem is, I haven’t told my husband I’m going ahead. He knows it’s something I’ve wanted for years, we’ve spoken about it many times, but he’s not really on board. He says my breasts are fine the way they are and he doesn’t want me spending so much money. He questions why I want them, whether it’s just to show off 🙄 which it’s obviously not. I’m also about to get adult braces and he doesn’t have a problem with so I don’t really understand why he has such a problem with this.
Does anyone have any advice on how to get him on board? What if he just won’t? I hate the idea of having to endure the silent treatment through recovery instead of having him look after me. Will this end in divorce? And what does that say about my marriage if it can be broken by it?
Please help.
