The Pain?

Hi Girls,

Basically your all going to think im stupid but….Im getting a BA and I am not telling my parents ( I live with my dad and his girlfriend) simply because im quite shy do dont speak to my parents about anything and they will think im stupid and crazy and would not expect me to be getting this done. But I literally hate my boobs so much, i dont even have any to be honest but you know what i mean!

Anyways, I just want to know from girls who have had this done how bad the pain really is, Like will i be able to walk around? Im just going to pretend im ill for a few days so I can hide away in my room haha but i will need to obviously come downstairs for dinner etc and keep them hidden away.

Thankls xxxxx

Hi hun, do u no wether u will be going over the muscle or under? I know over the muscle is much easier healing and under takes longer. U will probs just have to stay in bed for a fees days if u have over like me day 3 I was up and about just not lifting anything heavy. U will be able go down for dinner just be hard getting yourself up off the bed. Do u know what size and will they not notice lol ? I think by now many of girls would of hidden it from parents u won’t be the first or last xx

Any questions just private message me and ask x

each to their own but i 100% think you should tell them. its a major operation and i think they would be upset if you didnt confide in them. you’re set on getting it & if they dont like it, they’ll come round once they see how serious you are & how much you’re upset currently.
i don’t think you’ll be able to hide it. good luck xx

I can’t tell them, no way! My mum yeah maybe, I don’t actually live with her so I might tell her but my dad and his girlfriend no way!! If they notice then il tell them but I’m
Not home that much anyway so il try my best to keep it hidden haha! I’m still undecided about under or over the muscle my friend has over and I don’t think they look very nice they’re really far apart and just not what I would be happy with. Also probably like 425cc. As long as I can get up and walk around it will be fine, is the pain really bad or is it just uncomfortable? Xxxxx

It’s bareable just a achey pain and the scars can sting a bit .
But believe me u won’t be able move for a good few days. If there far apart my surgeon always says the gap in the middle will always stay the same so obviously each girl is different so ur friend will be different if u had overs . Ovbviously bras bring them closer but all about what u have already xxx

I’m hoping to get them done on a Saturday and I will stay at my boyfriends that day and get him to bring me home on the Sunday evening, that way I can go straight to bed (my dad goes to the pub Sundays as well ;)) staying in bed a couple of days is fine but I’m only taking a week off work I literally just sit at a desk anyways so I’m not moving around at all, will I be okay to drive after like 6-7days do you think? Xx sorry for all the questions it’s just nice knowing other peoples opinions and experiences xx

I had unders, was fine to drive after a week and also went back to work after a week xx

I think it depends really as I had partially under and I was on terrible pain and was crying ! I
Couldn’t go to the bathroom on my own or wash my hair until a week after as I couldn’t move my arms and most of my friends had the same problem who had a boob job too. You also might have strapping on so they might see this ? I would tell them babe as you will be in pain and also have to sleep sitting up x

Hey hun, i had overs (400) which are supposed to give you more of a cleavage however this is subject to how far apart your nipples/boobs are now and if u can squeeze together any cleavage!
Personally day 2-4 i was in agony and was most surprised at the pain as u literally cant push yourself using your arms out of bed or off the couch. I had my bf help me but if i needed to i would have coped on my own. I had strong painkillers and so you should be okay. I personally really understand why u wouldnt want to tell your dad and if you dont want to then dont. I didnt. Just wear a baggy jumper. You wont notice them but what i did was claim a trapped nerve in my back (which i suffered from before) and this explained to my family why i was on antibiotics and not drinking xx

I got mine done on 19th dec…and I’m still in so much paid! 390 teardrop unders, could not even sit up myself in bed for three days! I went back to work a week later and never told anyone…no one knows lol

I do admit I couldn’t wash my hair for a week couldn’t lift my arms up to do it. Ull be fine xx

I might tell my mum as she will be so upset if I dont tell her and then one day finds out. but im going to wait until i have it all booked in! i understand that you cant wash your hair for like a week but that shouldn’t be a problem, i can get my friend or boyfriend to take me hairdressers (might even get a little trim 😉 I also know that unders are more painful but look better? is this correct? I want to have a cleavage and dont want them really far apart like a few of my friends xxx

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