Hi Louise, I’m 8 days post op. The only thing I’ve needed to buy especially for recovery so far is my Vpillows for sleeping. I bought 2 and use both as well as a ton of others. Sleeping is difficult and I still find it hard sleeping sitting up now.
I have a one year old and for the first day home I was in agony, and was like this for first 4 days at least. Do you have anyone to help you with the kids? My partner took the week of work so looked after the baby, there is no way I could if done it otherwise as you need to make sure you don’t lift. Today I’m starting to feel kind of normal. I drove to drop the baby at nursery (only a mile away) and actually felt ok. I’m finding bending over the bath to bath her quite difficult though.
My main advise to you is to try and rest as much in your first week as you possibly can. It’s so easy when you have kids to naturally want to do stuff for them but try and chill as much possible as in your 2nd week you will feel a lot better . Also keep on top of the painkillers they give you, I have taken my ever 4 hours and they do help, although I stopped taking the cocodomol as they made me constipated.
Hope all goes well for you, not long to go now. Good luck xx