Tomorrow Started by: Julie Dawes

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    I have my ba and uplift tomorrow at preston and for the first time I have realised just how frightened I am.i cant stop thinking about my little girl and worrying that something might go wrong. Is it normal to feel this way? Im trying not to voice my fears to my family as I dont want to worry them. Any advice?

    Rhianon
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    Hi Hun, I felt exactly the same! Sounds so daft but I kept thinking what if I don’t wake up? How will my partner explain to my son I died in vein… I felt like I was going mad!!! I even told the nurse at the hospital I felt like this… She simply laughed and said “don’t be silly Rhianon there’s to much paper work to fill in if you died …silly banana!” I fought this was funny and strangely enough it made me relax! The idea of it had soon disappeared. It’s normal to have these feelings. But of course I’m here today to tell the story haha! I’m 13days PO and I feel amazing! My boobies are amazing & I’m forever looking in the mirror at them! My son is 2 he doesn’t really understand but in the first week when I was pretty sore he kept his distance and was such an angel. I was able to lift him up by just over 7days. Good luck xxxxxx

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    Thankyou for that.my little girl is 9 and understands too much. I think because im having the uplift too I feel as though there is more risk.i could be wrong. I might feel better once im there! ! Xxx

    Rhianon
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    Ahh you’ll be fine hun. Keep me posted will love to hear how you get on.xxx

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    Thankyou and I will xxx

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    I’m so relived to see others have the same worries, I thought I was going crazy thinking my son could be without his mother and for what!? But I’m glad you lady’s have brought it up because I don’t think I would have so thanks. And good luck Julie x

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    Thankyou so much.im still lying awake now!! Xxx

    Elle
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    Good luck today lovely. Im sure everything will go smoothly! Just think you will have new twins soon and you will be thinking what was i so worried about. Its normal to be nervous! Let us know how you got on and happy healing 🙂 x

    Sal
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    Good luck for today Hun, I am still 8 weeks away and I think about this all the time. You will be fine xx

    phoenix 1
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    Hey Julie, i’m booked in at preston tomorrow also. I’m a little nervous not so much frightened. Just keep thinking of the end result!!! x

    Nicole 1
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    Having children makes you afraid of everything!!!,

    But it will all be fine. Good luck

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    Thankyou girls.im the first one in.going down in ten minutes.eeeek xxx

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