Too scared to go ahead :///

Omg iv just got my admission time through. It’s 14:00 on Friday at preston. I actually wish I wasnt doing it now, even though it’s something iv wanted for years. I’m so scared!! It’s not very real and I’m capping it. I hope there isn’t a long wait cuz I’ll be out of my mind.
Heads doing over time thinking if I’m making a mistake and being selfish.
Arghh I don’t even feel exited anymore now, just so so nervous ????????????
Anybody else feel like running away at the last min?? Xx

Dont worry i was exactly the same cried my eyes out in the morning no sleep the week heading up to it its over and done with before you no it u will be fine xx

hi sue im also on friday at preston! my admission is 8am so im hoping i wont have to wait too long…im not scared of the op but definitely scared i have chosen the right size and whether under/over…i keep changing my mind everyday! which surgeon have you got xx

Oh I was hoping for an early time like that lol. Iv got Mr mounir. Who have you got? Km worried about size too, but he didn’t allow me any bigger so I’m just hoping they are big enough. I’m most worried about the pain tho. And about healing. Like iv got 2 weeks off work but I’m scared I’ll not be better and I won’t be able to manage. Just a complete nervous wreck lol xx

I think this is normal Sue… I’ve had some of the exact same thoughts. I had a complete emotional breakdown when I first booked my op because I too felt I was being selfish and taking unnecessary risks. I still have niggling thoughts (mines tomorrow btw) but nothing worth doing is ever easy. I know that when I kiss my little boy before leaving tomorrow my heart will feel like it’s breaking but I’ll be coming out the other side a more confident and happy person. I’m sure it will be worth it in the end.
#scaredtodeath

If u follow the guidelines and go nil by mouth the evening /night before u will be so exhausted by the time u arrive u won’t even have the energy to feel scared trust me!

They perform these ops so often and are real professionals the day will be over before u know it! I stayed overnight and felt pampered and loved chatting with the nurses had a right laugh.

It’s natural to feel nervous but just ride through it don’t fight it. Deep breathes an positive thoughts. Fighting usually brings on anxiety and will get ur blood pressure rate up which isn’t ideal. Fxx

I was the same also! But honestly it’ll be worth it! And I was also so nervous but being put to sleep was an absolute breeze and the next thing I remember I was waking up crying for my son (lol). Xxx

Aww thank you for all the reassurance guys. It’s flying by so far so hopefully it will continue to go fast and will be over and done with. And I so hope they are worth it in the end. I’m petrified something will go wrong and they will look worse than they do now ???????? lol.
But I’m pushing that to the back of my mind and thinking positive. Thank you.

The no food and drink thing. ….. it says on my information that I can drink water until 2 hours before. Does anyone know if flavoured water is ok??
Also, my time is at 14:00, would a cup of tea when I get up be out of the question?? Xx

Hey, 6 hours before you can eat and drink, but as your admission is 2, you mustn’t have a thing after 8am. After that it should only be water – pretty sure this doesn’t include flavoured water. Make sure you drink plenty leading up to 12 to keep yourself hydrated xxx

Good luck Sue everything will be fine and so worth it. Let us know how you get on x

I had Mounir on Monday 24th July (2 weeks ago) at the first trust hospital in Preston. Firstly Mounir is bloody awesome. His work is amazing and he’s just generally an all round decent man. I had my 2 week post op consultation on Monday and he’s made such a neat job of my incisions. I had a BA and uplift so I needed a night in hospital. ALL staff at Preston were amazing. From check in to check out every single person I saw and came in contact with were so nice. I really did feel like I got what I paid for. It’s not like a normal NHS hospital it’s a nice small descreet hospital. Nothing to worry about Hun you’ll be in safe hands. Xx

As sue you will be fine, to be honest I think if you weren’t nervous and scared it would be weird! Most of us ladies on here have been through the exact same emotions as you. I’m 3 days post op and honest it really hasnt been as bad as I thought. Keep.positive and it will be over before you known it and you will have fab new boobies xxxx

@kelly wild goodluck for today Hun hope it goes ok x

I felt exactly the same Sue, I was petrified that I wouldn’t wake up after my op and even recorded a video for my little boy incase anything happened! I feel completely ridiculous now now because it literally was such a nice, easy and quick experience. You’ll be absolutely fine and so happy when it’s done. The recovery really isn’t so bad, just follow the instructions and get lots of rest and you’ll be back to normal in no time x

Do not run away…

Having my boobs done was the best thing I ever did!

My confidence has boosted massively and I feel so much more comfortable and womanly!
I went on holiday last week and wearing a bikini with boobs is so fun!

Go for it girl!

x

Thank you so much for all the advise and support ladies. It’s hard to talk to my friends about it cuz they don’t really understand, as much as they try to help by saying you will be fine. It’s not really the same.
I will keep you all posted. 2 more sleeps eeeekkkk xx

How did it go sue???? I’m in the same position as you were in!! Hope everything went perfectly! Xx

It went perfectly fine thank you lv. I so nearly chickened out when I was laid on the bed waiting to be put to sleep lol. But I’m glad I went through with it. I love them ????????

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