Too scared what if it goes wrong?!

I am hooked on this forum trying to figure out if getting a ba really is a good idea! I have thought about it for years and I have taken the next step to booking consultation. I’m just so scared something will go wrong or I won’t like them! I am convinced I could die on the table or get terrible post complications!!

Hiya Hun, who is your consultation with? I had wanted my BA for years, even more so after breast feeding my little girl for 6 months as it left me with a very empty B cup. I can honestly say its one of the best decision I have ever made. I think all the worries and doubts are perfectly normal, once you have had your consultation things will seem a lot clearer for you and hopefully help you feel more positive about going ahead with a BA 🙂 xx

Thanks Cheryl,

I want to see that people think its worth it! obviously you do! I think im just gonna go for it.. it cant be worse than it is now!

Hi Ruth, I ‘m exactly the same lol I think it’s perfectly normal after I paid my deposit I felt like I had made the worst decision. But reading other girls positive experience it’s reassuring me that everything is fine. I even thought of just loosing the £500 deposit because of fear. Lol, But I’m calm now everything will be fine Hun xxx

I am feeling the same ruth and mines on monday! Been waiting 14 years and dont want to back out now but so scared of the surgery x ask me next week and see how I feel once its done! X

I was exactly the same for nearly a year every day I would think I’m either going to die or wake up during surgery! But come to the day it wAs an amazing experience! I did cry a little before I went down but the nurses are so nice ! I feel sleep and then was awake like it been done in 3 mins! You haven’t nothing to worry about try keeping off this for a while I did it helped abit! Just think in the long run your going to have amazing boobies xxx

Thank you rinaule that really helps! Staying off here though dont think I could do it – slightly obsessed 🙂 x

Hi ladies, it’s perfectly natural to be worried, I said goodbye to my family and children as if I’d never see them again and felt very selfish! Afterwards I felt like a twat for being so over dramatic, you’re perfectly safe and the end results are definatetly worth it. Good luck xxx

I had mine This Tuesday and spent the whole night before and morning panicking and feeling sick. Just before going into theatre I asked to go to the toilet, looked in the mirror and thought to myself I am going to have to tell them I cant do it…I was just too scared. I had a quick word with myself and told myself in 5 minutes it will be done and that just this once I had to man up lol. I was shaking when the nurse took me down to theatre 2 minutes later and I remember the lovely nurse putting her arm around me saying you really do not need to worry… all I can say to you is. I REALLY DID NOT NEED TO WORRY AT ALL. It was nowhere near as bad as I thought and im a complete wimp! 🙂 I thought about having it done on and off for years, then about two months ago I just thought to myself do I want to look back in another 10/ 20 years time and wish id done it…NO! I booked a late space and now here I am 4 days post op and cannot wait to go shopping in 6 weeks time for clothes that I have never been able to wear! 🙂 xxx Any questions please feel free to ask xxx

Thank you for this jane too. I said exactly the same! If I dont do it now then I will regret it it and eventually get it done anyway 🙂 really looking forward to being on the other side now. Cant believe its on monday and like you looking forward to shopping for new things with my new shape 🙂 xx so glad your happy with your results! What size did you go to and from? What cc did u have? Over or under? Which surgeon?!!!!! X

I’m getting thoughts like this and my BA is tomorrow! Worried about the op and the pain after and then thinking what if I don’t like them but I’m not happy with how I am now and have wanted it done for ages so I’m just thinking that it will be worth it afterwards. Worried I’m gonna wake up tomorrow and be like woah what are these. Lol x

I was scared because I read on here that unders hurt more… I had unders and i have been absolutely fine. I think you can make yourself feel worse by reading on here sometimes. I Had Mr Traynor and 295cc’s and as I have read on here previously about Mr Traynor girls I have no bruises as of yet and am very hapy so far. xxx
What sizes are you having Sarah and Liz? Overs/ unders? xx

345cc unders I think but I know he’s ordered a couple of larger sizes xx

Having 375 overs – would have had unders but mr mounir advised overs x

i think if u have thought long and hard about it and u really want it then dont worry so much about the rest and go for it.. im sooo nervous already and im only meeting the surgeon on monday lol.. im the kind of chick that passes out from having an injection never mind surgery.. god help me when the time comes lol xx

Thanks everyone your comments have helped so much!! And the point about looking back and thinking why didn’t I do this earlier is so valid!! I am looking forward to my consultation Tuesday and hope that I can be brave enough to do it like you girls xxx

I defo worried more than I should. Had mine today it was fine. I thought I’d wake up ill and in agony but I was fine just abit achy when I move. I’d defo do it again. I had 385cc unders in the end. I was lying in that operating room thinking omg what am I doing. Had abit of panic in my head but before I knew it I was asleep and then being woken up x

Aw thanks Liz! Well done and congratulations! Can you let me know how you feel in a few weeks time if your happy…which I hope you are x

Yeah course I will. Ill be glad when they start to soften abit though as they’re still looking very stuck on if ya know what I mean lol but that’s to be expected really isn’t it. Still feel fine today just achy when I try to get up or stretch to get things but apart from that all’s fine 🙂

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