Unsupportive friends?

Does anyone else have any friends that are just plain rude and useless at being a friend?! :/

I do.

Yes,soon as i told one of my close friends who i had alot to do with has now vanished of the earth,when i spoke to her about it first she was supportive but now clearly isnt. Im not that fussed tho because makes you realise if they were even your friend to begin with lol xx

If this is about me, I have pictures on here that I don’t feel comfortable with people I know ‘in real life’ seeing.
I have them on here to help girls that have also have tubular breasts.

Oh god stuck in the middle( literally) lol wooopppss

haha sorry natalie!

Haha its ok:) xx

They are probably just jealous of you as they will wish they could have it done x

Haha course not you Jodi! You know who… 😉 would never indirect you!

Yes Natalie totally agree. A friend of mine is just really cold and offish ever since I told her about getting them.
Don’t get it! Not the sort to cause drama though so just let it blow over.
X

I have always been the one in my circle of friends with the “baby boobs” fried eggs!
One of my friends once said to me if you didn’t have feet would you wear shoes ? When I said no she said why do you wear a bra then !!

I got used to it !

She can to visit me 4 days PO yesterday and told me they are still small !!

I know it’s jealousy but I also know I don’t need her as a friend !
New boobs new Jane !

Omg Jane that’s awful 🙁 my friend wasn’t impressed with it and assumed I hadn’t done any research, which I have, for years! It can get you down if your friends aren’t supportive but at the end of the day it’s your decision and if its right for you then you should do it! Xx

Jane that’s so bad! Good for you! Don’t need people like that around!

I’m so nervous now! Today is the day

At the end of the day girls, we are all getting new and fabulous boobs for ourselves and our own issues with our bodies. We aren’t getting them for anyone else!! If friends aren’t supportive then they are silly and jealous of our amazing boobies 😉 haha

As long as your happy with your new boobs then it doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks! 🙂 xxx

Good luck Kerrie! Enjoy it xx

Don’t be nervous kerrie love it’s the best thing ever !! I am a whimp and it’s not that bad and we are all here if you need us xxxx

Yes and I don’t speak to her anymore. We’d been best friends for 10 years xx

I’ve kind of got the same but it’s my boyfriend 🙁

I think he will accept it in the end but keeps making me feel guilty for wanting this by telling me ‘but why do you want surgery to make yourself look better when people are undergoing surgery for medical problems’ etc. or ‘but I love you because you’re naturally beautiful’.

But I really want this done and it’s hard when the closest people to you aren’t agreeing with it 100%.

xxx

No one around me is supporting me,friends,family,and my partner but i came to realise that no matter what people say it has nothing to do with them. If they told you what to wear would you listen? Or if they said why you getting your haircut it wont suit you,would you listen? In life people will put you down,advise you on what they think its best for you but were all human and live for ourselves. Even tho no one is supporting me and have really made it obvious how much they hate the idea of me having my boobs done. I am still going ahead! no one has the right to shove there thoughts in your face and make you feel crap and if they do rise above it and remember why your doing it. Were all doing this for ourselves so what if they dont like it! Friends who do this clearly arent friends, family who do it are most likely worried for you,boyfriends/husbands who do it are either paranoid and insecure about the attention youll get or are genuinly worried. Explain to the people close to you ie.family/partners your reasons and that your in safe hands all the things that will reasure them that your going to be ok and how much it will improve your life. Listen to what they have to say but most importantly listen to yourself. Your not living your life to please anyone,your life is for you!!

My friend and a member of my family have been this way! So unsupportive and told me not to go through with it. I just don’t think they understand that once you’ve been bullied because of the way you look, that sticks in your head. This is a personal choice and if they aren’t willing to be nice about one of the biggest decisions of your life then they obviously don’t think that highly of you – that’s how I feel anyway. Stay positive 🙂 xx

Good luck with your surgery today! I know exactly what you mean about rubbish friends, when I first started researching the procedure I was so excited to tell my best friends, and some of them didn’t even want to know and thought it was ridiculous. Over time my true friends have come out and supported me while I made my decision. I’m having my surgery on 28th May and haven’t even told a couple of my supposed best friends because I know they don’t support me or understand my reasons for getting them done. It’s so sad to think that I can’t share such an exciting thing with them, but I would hate to tell somebody and then just become a source of gossip for others and fake friends. Least we have this group to support each other xxxx

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