Unsupportive husband

Just a moan really at how my husband is being he is wing childish and saying I want this to attract new men, because of a stupid a pageant I’m in next year. Why would I do that for a one day thing. He doesn’t trust me and this just confirms it and I feel like why should I not get what I want because of his say so. He says we will argue and I will wear revealing clothes which is not true I will wear what I wear now normal stuff. Anyone else had this and can offer advice I really want this done

Siobhan im no marriage expert however what i do know is that when you love someone you should support their decision if ita something that they want. If you want this done chic you do this, for you. If he doesnt trust you thats his problem an does not mean he can control how you feel or what you want.
I know its difficult but if i was in such a marriage an my husband thought that way he would no longer be my husband!! Get your new boobs an enjoy them!! We all support you here ❤️❤️❤️

Just to say that my husband thought I would change after getting them done it was his in securities but 17 months down the line he said I am exactly the same as I was before them! He loves them just as much as I do I am sure after your procedure things will be the same for you all men have a jealous streak xxx

My boyfriend was initially exactly the same, it did make me question whether I wanted to be with someone who thought I would change because I now had a pair of boobs, but I think I’m all honesty he had this preconceived idea that I was going to look like some sort of porn star!!! it took me completely putting my foot down and saying that it was my money and my choice and that he’d have to deal with it as it was something I’d wanted for years. I understand that couples do need to have mutual agreement on some things, but if his reasons against you having it done is purely due to his own insecurities then he shouldn’t be controlling you Xxx

I am glad you have mentioned this because i too was having difficulty with my husband. I was told i am doing it for vanity and to be like other girls….In the end i told him regardless of what he thinks i will be going through with it anyway. I think the best thing for you to do is to try and get him involved with it all.i.e bring him along to the consultations and let him ask any questions or concerns he may have to the consultant/surgeon.
There is nothing worse than having an unsupportive husband but once he understands the process he will come around.
I hope it all works out for you. xox

Thanks girls , he said to give him a few weeks to think about it. Think about what it’s my body ? honestly it’s like talking to my dad asking permission. I don’t want to upset our relationship but the things is coming out with seems like he doesn’t trust me.

Don’t let him or his opinion bother you or ruin your experience. It’s a big decision for you to make and it is your body, I’m quite lucky alothough my partner doesn’t think there is anything wrong with me how I am he does understand how body concsious I am and it’s what I want to chbage and he supports that. I’m sure he will come around to it just do it for yourself ☺️❤️ Xx

Babe it boils down to one thing…… An insecure man!!! Men are useless when it comes to understanding anything that they haven’t thought up lol, it’s okay for them to stare at girls boobs but it’s not okay for their gf/wife etc to have some or get bigger ones… All they think is that your going to turn into Katie price get this shed load of confidence & run away with another man haha. There simple & have tunnel vision ???, you go for it hun don’t let that get in the way!! My fella was exactly the same, didn’t wanna hear about it, said I was selfish for getting it done although it’s my money, thought I would change and ‘he has never been a boob man’ ???….. Literally 2 seconds ago he just goes to me ‘get those bad boys out” …. Been all over me since ive had them done haha, your husband will love the confidence you have afterwards & so will you. Don’t let him being stubborn & making you feel bad affect your decision! Xxxx

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