Hi girls. I’m feeling abit low at the moment. I’m booked in to have my BA on 28th October and have been (and still am) researching the procedure. My partner of 2 years has known I’ve wanted this for years and how much I lack confidence because of my flat chest. At first when I told him I was going for my consultation and looking it to getting it done he seemed ok about it, not overly happy and he joked that I would think I’m too good for him once I’ve had it done. He said he doesn’t think I need it, but I literally have nothing so I refuse to believe it. Now recently, when ever I try to talk to him about it he says he’s sick of hearing about it and he always moans when he see’s me looking at the forum on my phone. I feel like I can’t talk to him about it at all and when I do he doesn’t want to know. He’s never been to any of my consultations and tonight when I tried talking to him, it turned in to a massive argument and he told me he couldn’t give a f*ck if I have it done or not! And if it goes wrong that I’m the only one to blame because it was my decision to have it done in the first place. This has really hurt my feelings, I just want his support and for him to be as excited as I am. After all he will be the only one who sees me naked so it would be nice for him to show some enthusiasm. I can’t talk to my family as they don’t even know I’m getting it done (my family are very old fashioned and wouldn’t understand.) He’s being so insensitive and it’s really putting a dampener on the whole thing. Has anyone else had this problem?
