I’m two weeks post op and have a very active 19 mth old , Today is my first day on my own with him and so far so good my biggest struggle has been getting him in/out of his cot as I have to lift him high up, I don’t think I would of been able to manage alone last week tho. Did let him climb up and sit on my knee after a couple of days just watch out for the elbows
Can you get friends round to help with dinner and nap times ? That may help x