hey hun, i had my BA last tues and i have three children, my youngest 8 months though he is a big boy, i have been lifting him since 5 days post op… its difficult wen you have children and a home to run, it dosent hurt to lift him but my body will tell me wen im over doing it, it hurts more to grate cheese lol, i had unders so my muscles ache a little at the end of the day, if you have help for over a week you should be fine 🙂 xxx