Bore off! Started by: Kayleigh

Amen !!! Stupid guys have no clue but when it comes to problems with there parts they soon feel our pain xx

You need to just keep explaining that its something you’ve wanted for ages and how much you really want it, its something that could seriously improve your self confidence and happiness. after a while he’ll probably even forget they’re not real, my ex once said “I don’t want a wife with fake boobs” haha… I just thought it was pathetic and he was seriously insecure. Especially by trying to put me down!.. It’s your decision and your decision alone! Xx

This is happening to me too. My boyfriend says “but one of the reasons I love you is because you’re so naturally beautiful” blah blah. He says to me “if we ever have a daughter, you can’t ever tell her you have them done because I wouldn’t let my daughter get them done” and he is concerned I won’t be able to breast feed in the future and also his mum passed away from breast cancer and he says “but some people have to have surgery on their breast for medical reasons and you want to CHOOSE to go through surgery just to get your boobs done?” which makes me feel sooo guilty but I can’t help the way I feel about my body, when I stand to the side in the mirror I just have to look away as I think it looks weird and not attractive. xx

Isabella it doesn’t affect breast feeding I asked the surgeon. I don’t have kids yet but when I do I would definitely breast feed. So that’s all fine

You aren’t doing it for him, it’s all for you! He should support you. It’s understandable him feeling as though you don’t need to improve yourself but at the same time him seeing you excited and happy about your new boobies should make him happier too!
Go for it sweetie xxx

Bloody hell some of these men are such dick heads. My fiance saved up for my boobs as he saw how much they affected me. He didn’t kind my saggy little acorns but saw how much I wanted them so bought me some! I think you should just fuck him off as there’s better men out there x

It’s for you and I’ll make you feel better so do it, best thing I ever done! Maybe he’s getting insecure or something x

I’m having exactly the same problem no-one I’ve told I’m considering it has been supportive especially my fiance! It’s really reassuring to know that other people get the same reaction because whenever I’ve read patient stories I feel like they say their partners were so supportive!

Haha nicole I speak sense 😉 x

Well I walked out of the party, he soon came with his tail between his legs begging me not to leave and apologising endlessly. I have accepted his apology this time, as he was so amazing through my recovery. As soon as he gets on the vodka he’s a nightmare! They just don’t seem to get how much this op means to all us girls, he’s really struggled with me changing and getting more confidence though. Just hope nothing else happens now. I love my new boobs and whatever he says won’t change that xxx

my boyfriend is amazing hes paying for a fair bit of my surgery jes always told me he got with me for the person i was he didnt care if i had surgery or not but wen i said im deffo having it done he said that it will just add to his attraction to me x
plus the smile it will put on my face and the good it will bring means alot more to him than the boobs xx u have us all to talk toaybe we should orginize a meet up for people who need boobie friends xx