Has anyone else had negative reactions from friends? Started by: Anonymous

They aren’t true friends if they are being like that hun!! I had my BA for me no one else not men not friends me! I’m two weeks post op had a few under hand comments from girls saying i was doing it for attention, iv’e not posted one boobie pic or been out with them on show they are there for me and me only. Send them another text explaining this and how it has upset you if they don’t understand leave them be! xxx

Exactly hun!! all jealously in my eyes nothing wrong with fixing something you dont like about yourself. So do it for you and no one else! I lost 5 stone so had a lot of positive support too! hope you ignore all the negative comments! you will feel too amazing to care trust me xxx

There just jelous hun and obvisously not true friends. Don’t let anyone put you off what makes you happy .
Xx

Jealousy is the worst thing ever, but unfortunatly there are so many jealous people in this world! You know you’re having this done for yourself and no one else.. So ignore their bitter comments. & why are they making digs about the cost.. It’s not as if you’re asking them to fund it for you!! Silly people, ignore them, it’s their problem not yours & they’ll be even more jealous when they see how happy you are and how amazing you look! Xx

Jealous is written all over this page replying to your awful experience and that’s exactly what this is all about. I don’t know what kind of friends they have been in the past to you, assuming close ones as you’re feeling upset! 🙁 Hun, it’s hard but try not to listen. They can’t appreciate how you feel inside and that makes them no sort of friends!!!! A friend will be there for you and support you through everything you do, its none of their business if they don’t think you should do it. Just the other day, and in fact the most common thing I’m told is “no don’t get a boob job you don’t need it you’re fine as you are” – I’m angry just typing that out. Who are THEY to tell ME what to do with my body?! I’m sorry but.. Hun.. Please don’t be upset as I’m upset now too lol, it’s nobody else’s body but yours.. You were given it and if you want to change it and you can to make you feel good, who is anyone to tell you not to?! Jealous that’s what they are. I don’t understand how people can be that way inclined that they feel the need to control others to make themselves feel better. It disgusts me 🙁
Please keep your chin-up, like you said this is for you and no one else <3 If you wanna message me privately feel free hun cos I know exactly how you feel xxxx

I have had mine done and none of my girl friends know because i dont know the reaction im going to get. I know most likely ill get spoken about and unfortunately with me i dont have many close girl friends and the girls i am close with will no doubt call me stupid. Get on best with boys. Most of my boy mates found out 2 days ago and i was worried they would be like a usual boy making jokes and stuff but they were all really sweet telling me not to worry what people think its my body and if anyone takes the piss theyre not friends theyre just jealous. My boyfriend has also been very supportive and really helpful with after the op. I got it done for myself though as not been happy for years xx

i think women can be the cruellest though; you’d think they’d understand but oh no its always judgemental comments and gossiping behind your backs. really annoys me. just ignore em, i know its hard to do but wth it’ll make you more happier trust me, you dont need people trying to stop you from being happy by making snide remarks.

I’ve had worse. Just to give you an overview, I’ve gone for the natural look; which is in proportion to my body.

This one ‘friend’ went crazy on the phone at me when I told her I was having it done. She was actually shouting at me; and said it’s gonna look stupid on me, I’m gonna look too top heavy, it’s gonna give me bad posture, I’m going to regret the day I get them done etc. – She didn’t even listen to my explanation or reasoning. (btw I’m no longer friends with this girl, following this incident).

But I think it’s a bit too faced from her. As she has always struggled with her weight; and mentioned to me that she would consider having surgery to help with her weight / saggy skin? – I know that’s different to a boob job, but they’re both cosmetic darling.