Daddy issues? Started by: Anonymous

Hi thought id comment as I’m really close to my dad his like my best friend to be honest I think he’s known iv wanted it for a while as a few years ago he heard me talking to my sister about it I just sat him down an told him I have done a lot of research on the company and surgeon and made it clear to him that it’s for me and no one else and that it won’t be really obvious iv had them done he just said what makes me happy makes him happy

My dad has always know I’ve had problems with my boobs as I’ve got no breast tissue what so ever and my sister had the same problem so she had her boobs done a few years ago so by the time I told him I wanted mine doing he offered to pay for the operation! So all booked in for 16th of March! Dads just don’t want men looking at their daughters in that way and think we are beautiful as we are but if he knows how long you’ve wanted this and how it effects your confidence etc I’m sure he will understand x

My dad was so much more understanding than my mum! My mums abit upset by it all! Saying she can’t believe im not happy with the jeans she made me! And I should love myself for how I am! Were as my dad on the other had is takin the mic out off me! Saying you will regret It but you’ll only realise that once there stuck on your chest lol! Then laughs and calls me chick fillets you won’t even be able to hold your self up! But mum just sits there and solks! I think if must be more awkward for dads! Even though your there little girl and they never want you growing up they probably feel like they can’t say yes or no because they won’t quite understand because they don’t have boobs themselfs! I told my parents casually! Just said when the tv was on! She’s got lovely boobs! Hope mine look like that when I get them done! And they laughed and said no your not and I said yes in all booked in you know I’ve wanted it for ages then just basically said right in getting a shower night! And hid hahaha x

My dad makes me cry :’) he’s so lovely and all they want to do is see you happy and healthy! Xxx

My mum told my dad for me. It’s not something we ever discuss I do all that wth my mum. so my mum filled him in and now we talk openly about getting them done and when it is and he usually just nods along and hasnt really said much on the matter.
My mum says he just said I was beautiful already but if I wanted them doing he would support me, he was also concerned about money so mum explained I had a sensible head on my shoulders. and mum said that when I tried on my sizers in the bra at MYA under my clothes, that my whole demeanour changed including the way i sat, walked and smiled and when she told him this he nodded which is his way of approval. I had a tough time back in high school with bullying so to hear that even jsut with sizers my confidence changed he seemed happy enough. He just told me he loves me and he’s heres for me. xx

I’m currently in the hospital waiting to go down to surgery and my dad still doesn’t know. I’ll tell him if it’s mentioned after but I didn’t know how to bring it up haha xx

My dad doesnt know either..my mum has been great .am due my BA on 9th march but im almost certain its something he’ll never understand or get and i really dont wanna upset or disappoint him. maybe its all done and dusted i will be able to but id rather not have the added stress beforehand xx