12month old twins to look after, I'm scared I've made mistake?

I am booked in highgate for over nite stay on 8th feb… I’m so scared cos I’m going to b alone and getting worried if ive made a mistake??? How the heck am I going to mange twins (1y/o) after ba… They r busy & still get bottle fed?!?! So what am I to do??

Any advice would b appreciated As I have no-one to talk to…

I’m wiv dr c… 340cc overs… I’m a deflated 34/36 c now size 10… 5ft 4in. 9 stone!!! So I worried 340 b too big, I want natural….

Also how r u bandaged up to leAve hospital???

Sorry for All questions but I need help!!!

Thank you 😳

OMG babe… do you have no partner / family member / Friend available for looking after the kiddies after the BA?

xxx

Yes I have hubby but with twins I will still need to help! have I made a mistake??

Hun u will b fine honest.I got a 8 year old a 3 year old an 9 mnth old an I managed.its hard coz u cnt pik them up 4 cuddles but just fink its not 4 long an after havin twins u deserve sumin 4 urself hun xx

Phew! I was going to cry for you then! lol

I hope your hubby is prepared for running around by himself for a good week or so! lol

You might not suffer babe and be pretty ‘normal’ straight after the BA but you MUST MUST MUST give them time to heal.

You havent gone and spent all that money to pick up one of your babies and damage your nice new boobies. I am not saying you will damage them, but you wont heal like you should do.

Like any op you have… you need time to rest and heal properly.

I suffered a bit for a few days after the op and I found it hard to get myself out the bed in the morning, let alone look after babies

Just prepare your hubby for a tough 7 days and I am sure you will both be fine.

I am sure that once he see’s the outcome he will know it has all been worth it PMSL

xxxx

Thank you very much both… Hubby doesn’t want me to have them so that makes matters worse!! I had a c-sec so hoping it’s not as bad as that!!!

Oh I’m so scared!!! 😳

You will be fine babe. You have to remember you are doing this for YOU and no one else. I can only imagine that it is tough when your partner doesnt want you to have them done… but this is your decision. No one elses!

xxxx

Cherry! What is your story? What size b4& after and where?? X

Hi hun,

just ask a friend/family member to help you out. It will make things much easier.

My partner helped me with most of the daily work for 3 weeks and then I was on my own again..

You might be alright after your BA and be able to do most things. I have a 1 year old and although I was perfectly fine after my BA I didnt dare pick him up (I read some girls did it after 2 days and were fine) and changed him on the floor. Also put his seat down which made it easier to feed him and made a little bed on floor for his afternoon nap. As long as you are able to reach most of the stuff without complications you will be fine. Its not for long and it will be worth it xx

Many thanks Luna! My hubby will help & my mam at evenings but I really don’t know whAt to expect the after ba pain to be?? Xx

Thanks for taking time to reply!

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